I went to a club last night and I bombed, 15 rejections later I decided to give up!

The music was very loud so I couldn't run my usual game, I tried dancing with random chicks, taking their hands and spinning them around, nothing seemed to work! Can anyone give me a few tips to try next time I'm out?

Did you had fun?

In clubs it's all about eye contact and body language. Dance with them, kino, escalate.

I don't believe in the regular approach. Girls don't care about some stranger whispering some stuff in their ears. They are usually dancing or just busy chatting with their friends.

I go sometimes alone to clubs, be real confident, dance and try to make eye contact with girls. From the moment a girl would check me out, i would start dancing with her.

However, i rarely took a girl home after going out to clubs.

- Try less loud clubs, so it's easier to converse. There's always the option of finding the patio, if you don't mind smokers.

- Dancing with a random chick is easier if you've been having fun with another friend or a group. (Especially a mixed group of guys and girls.) It's harder to be smooth when you're a loner trying to pull a girl out of a group to dance with her.

- You HAVE to build momentum quickly and maintain it. If you spend the first hour standing around drinking, you're gonna have a hard time finding the energy to be fun and social. Plus if you're social right off the bat, girls will see you being social, and assume that you're a fun, easy to talk to, and even kinda popular. Be cool to the door guy. High five the first person in the club. Talk to the bartender. Cheers the person beside you.

- The fundamentals of good game still apply. Confidence. Humor. Non-neediness. Sexuality. Ambition/Power. But you need to add a higher energy level to that, with a bigger sense of fun. It's harder to talk, so nonverbal communication becomes essential.

If you need work on your fundamentals, don't be afraid to get help on that more generally.

Thanks for the tips! I did have a lot of fun actually despite all the rejections! Thinking back I do remember dancing "near" a girl for a while before makineyeg my move, so I think thats where I blew it if I'm honest.

Whilst outside in the smoking area with a friend I got talking to an HB8, kino, sexual tension etc.. but lost her once we went back inside.

I'll try putting the tips you've given me into place next time I go off to a club. Thank you!

Clubs are all about having fun, girls know they are going to get picked up and you will get shit tested like crazy! but its a melting pot for HB 8s,9s,and 10s so its great place to pick up imo.

The key in a club is to be quick on your feet, and convey that you are the alpha male in that bar.

p.s don't get drunk next time

Check out Skillz clubbing thread, tons of advice in there

When your in the club have this mind set I am the shit also just have fun get on the dance floor and start dancing don't ask permission to dance with females go right behind them and start dancing put your hands on there waist and be dominant if they look back at you give them a smile but mainly have no fear and be confident and everything will work out for you.