Is it weird to look up a number? She was about to give it to me but got split up by friends who needed to leave.[/list]

Little help here?

If it's your only way then of course do it because why not. If you will see her again anyway, then no.

If you do look her up, you pretty much have to go direct. If direct is your game then by all means give it a try.

If you're going to look up her number, you're going to have to convey to her that you did it in a non-creepish way. Like the above guy said, it's got to be direct and bold, but common sense would dictate not making it come off as stalkish. Seems pretty standard, but I know lots of guys who somehow manage to screw it up.

Thx. Yeah going direct is not an issue here. We were both going direct for most of the night... Grinding, innuendos, flat out suggestions, etc...

Thx guys. I guess it was a pretty silly question because it only has one answer. Never see her again or look up the digits. Or maybe lookin up FB would be better? Just thought of that.

Met this HB9 a few nights ago while eating after a night out with some male friends. Talked a little, got her name (which was pretty unique) but didn't feel like taking things further and #-closing so hugged and said goodbye. She was really into me but I was tired and had a big day coming.

Back home I realized that she was actually quite cute so I looked her up on FB the next day and sent her a message (referencing to our conversation) stating that I thought she should give me her number. She was really enthusiastic and gladly gave it to me. I'm glad I did, D2 planned!

So go for it, do whatever suits you best. FB, phone book, whatever. She responds? Great. She doesn't? Care. Atleast you've tried!