Hi, I'm Enigmantra and I'm new to the game. I'm 19 years old and a virgin. Never kissed a girl in my life.

I feel confident when I'm roaming the streets and I feel like I'm slowly changing.

I don't smile often (except when watching comedies) and it feels very unnatural to me. Although I start to feel more sexual when smiling at girls. But I feel very vulnerable and intimidated smiling.

I've heard some conflicting information when it comes to smiling. Should a girl earn my smile or should I smile at her the moment I see her?

I've also heard that if you can't fake a smile and that it looks unnatural.

Tell me what you think,

Cheers

Hey man, welcome. I too was 19 and never kissed a girl before. Lost my virginity at 19, and have kissed several girls now, so I feel you bro.

Your problem is not about smiling. It's about everything else apart from smiling. Really, it's about your inner attitude and you won't be thinking about "should I smile" "should I do this or that?"

Have you read up on any stuff? If not I suggest:

The Attraction Code by Vin Dicarlo
60 Years of Challenge
Dicarlo Escalation Ladder

You smile cause your happy man. You have to love life and let it show, smile when your happy, when you see someone. You dont need a reason, and there is no possible way you smiling could be a bad thing ever. BTW smiling influences people to do the same "generally speaking"

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Thanks guys for the positive feedback!

I understand it now.

I am currently reading the Game which is highly fascinating, and I'll try to read most of the stuff out there. I'm also watching all the documentaries (a lot of Tyler Durden)

Some is so technical and I learn so much everyday now my brain won't digest it

Every time I read up on this stuff I feel more empowered. My fear seems to be fading.

I'm going to try the newbie mission soon. I'm scared but excited.

When you smile, people beter receive you. In another words, people who smiles often, have a lot of friends...

Try this experiment, go and say hi, to some random people. In practice (A) you smile and say hi. In another you don't smile and say hi. And you will see, on which people react more friendly. You will see it's better to smile and say hi...

If you're into reading, a great book that has helped me that I use to teach with is "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden.

Smiling is a UNIVERSAL sign of friendlyness. Smiling will actually FORCE others to smile. Especially if you have naughty thoughts on your mind.