Hi guys,
I am getting 29 and I want to be frank here:
The thing does not sound good for me is that I am almost virgin. In my life I just got several BJs from 2 hbs.
Honestly I can't call them Hbs since they were not that good looking and sexy and that was the reason I didn't fuck them and every time I gave them some excuse not to fuck them.I have no idea how it feels to fuck a girl.That sucks now.
I was not born here and back in my country having sex before marriage is not that cool.
I am good looking with good body (6 feet) and I know how game works and I am not retarded but I think I had bad luck and I am getting impatient.
I can't seal the deal. I got number from hb 8's and some 9's. and went on a date with some of them and even kiss closed 3 times and I was almost to the point to loose my V card but every time something happened
I am pretty active in bars, getting noticed by hb's but I can't seal the deal.I have had so many improvement in terms of talking with hbs.I think I don't have the mind set to fuck the hbs. This makes me crazy.

So, I was thinking of hiring a an escort again. Why again? since I tried it two years ago and I didn't fuck her. Why? since I told myself I can lose it to somebody . I feel ashamed that after struggling for along time,I end up with an escort.
Honestly, I really need affection and I don't think I can get it from escort and I think I am almost there to get HBs but it has not happened for me for a long time.

So I have found a crazy thought from this forum. This weekend I want to go to the bars and asks all hbs if they want to have sex with me tonight. I am sickk of this game honestly and can't take it anymore.
So any idea for me? probably if one person needs advice in this forum it would be me.

Yo dude, how are you man?

Chill, chill, chill.

You need to do several things to get started. Read up on game, read up on inner and natural game. You must internalize the mindset and principles of how this stuff works.

Go out and talk to as many girls as possible. Increase your social circle, talk talk talk, have fun.

A few books you should read:

The Game by Neil Strauss
The Attraction Code by Vin Dicarlo
60 Years of Challenge

The techniques may vary, but the overall mindset and key principles are almost always the same. After you know this stuff, it becomes a game of talking to as many girls as possible. Don't go for the escort. Make this your goal. You can achieve it and you will achieve it. Begin to study and begin to practice.

Maybe, Just maybe, subconciously you are telling yourself that it is a bad idea to do this BECAUSE of the way you were brought up. And that is why something goes wrong because in the back of your mind you think it's a bad idea. Just a little observation!

Lets face it you don't wanna fuck a random girl.... or you wouldn't be here asking what to do.

Besides... you had the chance to do it but you passed on. Perhaps you are looking for someone special that you connect and you feel more relaxed... and have more confidence so you can take the leap.

Having sex with a prostitute ... wont give you the satisfaction you are searching for... you are looking for affection not sex. This are two different things.

I think your greatest handicap when talking to girl, is your V card, that comes out and you think you are loser... you aren't.

If you are sick of this game... why do you continue? because your a virgin of 29?

Some people forget .... that pickup has to be fun, has to be enjoyable... not a choir.

So instead of having the mentality lets go fuck a bitch... have fun, on the state you are, fucking a random girl... wont give you what you are looking for, if it gave you any satisfaction you would fuck the two girls you rejected so think about this.

Nowadays I dont even think about game... I just have fun.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I think you are focusing to much on sex. Diving right in at the deep end works for some people but its clearly not working for you.

Id concentrate on making lots and lots of friends. Male and female. Try just having conversations with women without thinking about having sex with them. Build up your confidence with the opposite sex.

Forget about losing your virginity.

Many guys argue it gives them a false sense of "confidence" or a feeling like "I CAN DO THIS!"

Not really...a fucking retard can stick his dick in a girl that is willing. I personally have passed on many sexual opportunities with girls that I frankly had no attraction to. Like if they didn't meet my criteria, i simply friend-zoned them. Be happy you're a virgin...TO SOME LEVEL.

Now ....I feel life's imbalances lead men (through social conditioning, school, etc) to become bad with women or they lack a sense of entitlement. I feel you don't lack entitlement but you're fucking desperate and I DO NOT BLAME YOU.

It is frustrating as a man because you know given a girl really hot and your type, you'd fuck the shit out of them. Don't go out propositioning girls for sex, you'll end up with a desperate one anyways or a girl that's not even good looking or worse: not of your standards.

Begs the question...are your standards too high ? I call bullshit. As long as a girl gets my dick hard (and YES NOT EVERY GIRL GETS IT HARD) - then she's a valid option for me.

IF YOU WANT AN ESCORT...hey dude...go for it. Might as well fuck an unbelievable hottie for your first time...me personally, I'd try to chase a hottie, a real hottie. Not a money one....now it can be argued...are all women whores but....I don't care to speak in these terms.

Don't be upset being a virgin. You're a virgin by choice. The misconception is MOST GUYS AREN'T. (realistically most guys seriously aren't...they just suck at talking to girls or even APPROACHING)....but from the sounds of it, you didnt want just any warm hole.

Kudos.

That's right. Unfortunately I have standard and I can't help it. I tried to fuck one of those mentioned hbs but I didn't get boner.
Honestly, I don't want to be 29 and not getting laid with a hot girl.
The sad part is almost all time I near the point to get what I want but I can't seal the deal. I am pretty frustrated about it.
I've tried all options I could think of but never worked for me so far.My problem with hiring escort is admitting the fact I surrendered and probably getting nothing out of it. Maybe that's bullshit.
And yeah I was born kinda religious and I used to believe in some rules but know I lost almost all because of mental pressure on me now.I'd rather fucking a married woman (which is not cool I think) than hiring an escort.

Why can't you close the deal exactly? What happened? The girls said "no we shouldnt" "not yet"

All that bullshit? Realize you have to ignore shit like that and keep moving forward with it. Physical turn-on is the best, not verbal. If she's not allowing physicality to ensue at all despite persisting, then you played your hand.