Background:

I wont go into detail about how I got here so you can read my intro if you want to know but I will say that I have decided to get back into the game about a month and a half ago. I am a 34 year hispanic former AFC and I am ready to get back out run some game. I realized I used to have game but it was sloppy and it could have been so much better. After reading "The Game" and watching the PUA with Mystery, I decided I could do this. So, to start off, I dont make a lot of money and ride the bus to work. My son and step daughter live with their mother so I have most of my weekends free. The past month I decided I could peacock but not extreme. I found some really cool shirts at Goodwill (clothing resale shop in the states) for very cheap and spent some money on some nice shoes and did some more reading and made some notes.


Week 1:
As a teen I could open anybody and just talk and it was no problem, but I think since I have been at my apt alone for so long (2 years) and all my male friends are married or just dont go out looking for chicks I seemed to have a problem opening during the day. I decided to open women at work that I would never really talk to. It seemed strange at first but I started getting more comfortable and tried my best just to carry the conversation. I worked out very well and I got a lot of smiling faces. I was at the bus stop one morning and glanced at this cute girl at the bus stop who I made eye contact with but I glanced away and just sat down and didnt say anything. After I sat down I realized she turned and faced my direction like she was looking down the street for the bus but she was not standing that way when I walked up. I sat there and realized I had approach anxiety, even though the body language IOI was there. I couldnt believe it. I just froze. She got on the bus I got on and even got off where I got off. I went in the mall to get some breakfast when I got off and I literally followed her (not on purpose) and still didn't say anything. I realized this is something I really need to work on. Since then I have been working on my inner game and recorded some affirmation on my cell phone and listening to it on my way to work. I think its working! I also wrote some stuff down and used a lot of advice from the inner game section of this forum.

Week 2:

A female friend I havent hung out with was having a wedding reception and invited me to hang out. I have declined her invitations for along time because at one point she was my one-itis and I landed in the friend zone. We actually slept together but I would always supplicate big time and I think I have turned women off a lot because of this or even had women cheat on me because of this. I reallized I dont like or want her any more so I decided I needed to rebuild my social circle again and after reading about pivots and DHV's, I had a ton of female friends and never took advantage of these opportunities. So I used this chance to practice conversation and it worked out great. She hugged me tight because she has not seen me in so long and then introduced me to her friends. I had more than one female friend there whom gave me real big hugs and seemed like it gave me some real big DHV spikes. I had practiced conversation although I was still pretty nervous since it has been months since I was even social at all. During one conversation I had with this mans wife I was getting IOI's the whole time. Couldn't believe it! She kept rubbing her hands and look at me with a big smile and hung on every word when I spoke. I would never hit on a married women but it felt good knowing IOI's were there. I forgot to mention the whole week I was kind of gaming this one girl at work just to see if I could draw attraction and she had a boyfriend but she kept mentioning that her daughter was with her dad and that she was going out. I mentioned that I might be on that side of town and she gave me her number. I swear my hand was shaking when I got her number but it was awesome. The point of that story is that after the reception I met up with her at the club with some good friends of mine that picked me up. I tried the finger thing were the fingers closed but the bitch kept her fingers wide open, and I tried mind reading (Mystery Method) and I could not for the life of me get any more attraction. After the failed attempt I just hung out and drank. I attempted to open one set but it was poorly done and it was clear that I was not sincere. They were sitting in an isolated area of the club with just two of them and I walked up these stairs and passed like three empty tables and asked them who do they think lies more. .... After that night I decided natural game is the way for me.

Week3:
I would like to start this one off by saying I got a date set up for Sunday but with a girl I knew for a while and slept with about a year ago. Once I got her on the phone, I swear I used every conversation technique I could remember and it seemed to work. I swear to god I have talked to her about five other times over the past four months and could not get her to meet up. Im excited. On too the beginning of this week....

This would be the third week I have decided to run game. I have been keeping up with my hair nails and starched my work clothes nicely. I work in a mortgage office by the way. I have had some older ladies at work tell me I look GQ the previous week so that was nice and I have tried to just open or talk to any one I come in contact with all this week. I realized I dont need a super big goofy grin to smile and that it can be done with your eyes only. I read this one article about giving creative compliments and I have been trying this all week but its kind of sad because I dont think I have met anyone I could compliment honestly on or off the bus so I didnt try until today. I went to a department store after work looking for a money clip and walked up to this cute black girl HB8 and asked her if they had any.

Her: I'll check for you. (gets on walkie talkie - do we have any money clips? - No were all out).

Her: Smiles * No Im sorry were all out.

Me: What did somebody come and buy them all out?

Her:Smiles* They are very popular and go quick.

Me: Really, wow. What do you think about a man that busts out with a money clip instead of a wallet?

Her: I think they would be very organized because you have all your stuff in one place, blah blah blah....

Me:Cool, hey! I really like that nose ring you have on. Its cute.

Her: BIG SMILE* Thank You!

Me: Whats your name?

Her: Shayla

Me: You are so cute! Thank you for your help! - walks away with a smile

That approach was good practice to me. I wasnt trying to number close, but I think I could have. I then took the bus home and later went to a local place to get a burrito. As I was standing in line a HB7ish girl walks up behind me. The line moves along and as they make my order I look to might right and realize she is around an HB8. So I notice she gets a different kind of meat that is not chicken or beef.

Me: What kind of meat is that? I dont think I have tried that before. Im not facing her just talking over my right shoulder to her.

Her: Carnita's. Its delicious. I get it all the time, you should try it. She turns to face me.

Me: I turn and face her. She is cute and smiling* Im going to try that next time but if it sucks Im going to look for you. (the smile faded there so I think that came off wrong).

Me: Ooops were holding up the line. Please add lettuce and that will be it.

Lady at the counter: Did ya'll want drinks?

Me: Uh...no drink.

Lady: Your orders are together right? Points at the girl next to me.

Me: I smiled and said Uh... no...looked at her and she smiled at me.

I think she had a ring on so Im not sure I couldve have got any where but I think I could have handled that a whole lot better. Any advice on this would be awesome.

As for this weekend I am hanging with my sister who basically agreed to by my pivot on Saturday and I got a date on Sunday. Things are looking good. I need to keep my head on straight though and avoid one-itis if I get the lay.

Thanks for reading!

TX Krush!

Update from last entry:

This is from last two weeks.

5/27 - 6/1:

This week I was nervous but tried to smile a lot and tried to just give out a creative compliment to any HB8 or 9 that I saw on the bus or during the day. I saw one at the burrito place "Chipotle" and just told her she was very pretty (nothing creative) she smiled and told me she didnt get that often. She was walking away but I think I couldve continued the conversation but didnt. I keep seeing this Blonde asian HB8 on the bus but I just havent been able to approach. I think she notices me and she even sat next to me. Can anyone tell me if its too late to approach? I might try next time im on the bus.

This week I didnt really sarge or approach but I have just been practicing being social and talking to people. I have been flirting a bit with female workers over the phone which I probably need to slow down a bit but its so fun. I have also been reading about pre-selection and pivots. I used to get upset that I had female friends but never hooked up. I decided I needed to reconnect with all my female friends.


Date on 6/2:

I initially thought I could get a lay with this girl, especially since I have before. I now realize some mistakes I did. She told me where she wanted to go drink and I was like sure, and then I told her we should go to the movies after. After reading some posts about how bad an idea it is to go to a movie as a date I realized this was my biggest mistake.

So when we got the mexican resturant we ordered some margarita's and some chips. We got into conversation and I actually worked in a little bit of cold reading and some DHV story telling and some playful kino. I realized I failed to push and pull because I pulled and that was it. I put her hand on my arm and she complied and seemed to like me taking the lead. I didnt do any pushing though so I think this messed me up. As we carried the conversation I was getting a lot of IOI's and decided I would take her back to my place after the movie. Needless to say we were pretty buzzed and she asked me to drive. (I dont have a car) This proves you dont need a car or money to get with a girl. She actually paid for half of the food. I drove us to the movies and we had good conversation and I knew I could have kissed her but I was looking for the right time.

Watching a two hour movie after drinking is a horrible idea. Once you lose the buzz, stop conversation, and start falling asleep through half the movie, you realize something is missing. After the movie I tried to get her back to my place but she kept saying she was sleepy. I didnt even close with a kiss. I felt like at one point I could have kissed her in the theater or in the parking lot at least but the kino and attraction just died out tremendously after the movie. We were both sober and tied after ward.


6/3 - 6/9:

Worked on being social and reconnecting with female friends on facebook. I think FB game is underrated. I posted this pic of myself with my new hair cut and told my female friend to do me a favor and comment. I had like four female friends comment on the pic. It was nice and a good confidence boost. A day later a girl I had told we should hang out who hasnt contacted me almost never sent me an email with her number.

On 6/8 (yesterday) I hooked up with some female friends from work and realized which one was the mother hen so I Friended her and the birthday girl. I dont really want to hook up with the women from work but I thought it would be good practice to be social and practice game. I met this one girl who I have work emails from but have never seen her face. She was definatly an HB 8 or 9 with make up I think but she didnt have any on that night. She actually opened me and sent mad IOI's. She told me my eyes were pretty and she number closed me and added herself to my facebook. I wanted to milk this opportunity so I flirted and hugged her a couple times but I need to practice the push pull technique a little more. I became the life of the party and started high fiving the guys and just started taking over the set. They really liked me so after the bar the found out I dont have a car and the birthday girl offered to give me a ride and I told her that was cool and if she wanted to have a glass of wine at my place. She did and we hung out a bit and she was putting her friends on speaker phone and telling them how cool I was and that I was cute. After some wine she gave me her keys and let me drive her to her friends where we hung out more. Lets just say we burned a little bit of incense and I ignored the target a little and teased her for snort and giggle but she seemed pretty lit. I went on with my "witch doctor" routine. This is where I explain my great grand father was a curandero (mexican witch docter) and that I am sensative to people and spiritual feelings. I did a cold reading to the birthday girl and my target asked me to do her but I gave her a really week one and feel like I should give her a good one later. So I bust out with the cube on the birthday girl and she at it up like candy. I drove us back to my place (me and the birthday girl) and I feel I could have made a move but I wanted that HB 8 so i kept it friendly and we ate and I told her good by, and that she was like my older sister and really cool. So I posted the pics of me and like five girls from that party on FB for DHV. Hope that goes well.

Any advice on hooking up with a girl from work in a social setting? I understand the club method but im not sure this is effective in a setting where they go to all the time and where everyone in the circle works together. It would be clear If I isolate the target that I am trying to hook up. I was thinking about offering to do the cube to her at a later meeting. Any advice would be appreciated.

6/12

Not really trying to run game today and I was really just feeling kind of tired all day. I have been trying some stuff on facebook about showing higher DHV with different status quotes. I dont know about DHV just from updating status but it was fun.

Yesterday I got an email from the Birthday girl I hung out with over the weekend and she told me she had a lot of fun and was glad I came. She said she owed me for the late taco truck dinner I bought her but I told her dont worry about and that we should hang again. She mentioned that she found an amusement park out by the beach that she was going to this coming weekend. Im not quite sure if she was inadvertently inviting me or just having conversation. Although she is a double D she is probably about a HB 7.5 and a coworker so im not a 100% I should go for it. I told her to text me and i'll meet up with her to hang and she was like "sounds good".



I have another social circle I am trying to get into through this other female friend of mine that knows some HB 9. Hopefully I can meet up with her this coming weekend. Not to long before my shift ended I got a phone call from the HB8.5 that number closed me at the party for some work related stuff. She told me that she like hanging out with me and that I come over any time. I did the cube on her friend and I mentioned I would do a cold reading on her. She told me when and told me to come over tonight. I told her to slow down and wait. Be patient and I will give her a good reading. She laughed and was talked slowly and told me that she trusted me. Am I in???? I feel like I blew past attraction, and comfort, I think I just need to make a connection and then seduction if im not mistaking. She would be the hottest woman I have slept with in years!!! I know she is a coworker but I think I really need this one.....

I didnt want to come over her apt. even though she is very close to work - walking distance.... Mainly because I am broke and couldnt buy drinks or anything. I probably shouldnt even been thinking about that but it would have been in the back of my mind.

Any advice on my next step would be awesome.

You performed the cube via text message? Does the cube work well for you, I know it, but have not tried it yet. And do you also do the palm read routine?

Sorry if I misled in my journal. I did the cube routine at her friends apt. Not by text. I have been reading up on palmistry and hope to give that a try soon. I just havent had the chance yet.

6/15:

I decided I wanted to hang out with my friend that I did the cube with and she agreed to hang out. She is a co-worker so I thought I might hang out with her and just be social. I got off early and started texting friends to find out where to go. I later got a text from the Mother Hen of the social circle (also a co-worker) who didnt even have my number (she got it from the girl I did the cube too). She told me if I wanted to hang out with her and some friends because . I said sure. I just wanted to drink and hang out anyway. As we hit the road, she tells me her friends are these gay guys and its someones birthday. I was like damn.... I cant run game here. So I just practiced being social and telling stories. I think im getting better. I was able to talk to everyone and had a good time. We ended up at her friends (the gay guy) house and they decided they wanted to go to a gay bar... I was like damn.... this friend was my ride so I was like sure... I clearly only like women so I was like whatever...

Turns out the girl I did the cube on is telling everyone in the office I like her. Which is not true. Be careful guys.. ... only use the cube or palm reading on your target. I would advise against using it on an obstacle.

We ended up back at her friends house after the club (I actually found one straight girl but didnt number close - cock blocked by a gay guy lol) and I was so wasted. We planned to share a bed to pass out in and I told her I was cool with that. She is cute but a little big for my taste, im now starting to think she was gaming me...

Needless to say I ended up with a F-Close. FINALLY MY TWO YEAR DROUGHT IS OVER!!!!

She was not my target at all but it feels good to get it out of the way. I may need some advice on making sure she doesn't want a relationship. She said she didnt expect to do that but enjoyed it and that she is actually talking to someone. I said that's cool and that I have kids so it seemed like we had a mutual understanding. She mentioned she didn't want kids so I think we are on the same page.

I worried more about messing up a social circle and work environment awkwardness.

6/23

I called a buddy that I havent seen in a while to hang out and be my wing. I found this cool site called meetup.com where groups of people with similar interests meet up for drinks or just go out to different places. I found this group that was going bar hopping not too far from where I stay.

He agreed and came over and I told him all about "The Game" and the show The Pick Up Artist. We had a drink and took a long drive but we finally got there.

I decided to go natural and opened a three set as soon as we got to the bar. My wing man opened a set of guys... I need to talk to him about that. Any way....

Me: Are you guys here for the meet up?

Asian HB8: Yes we are.

Me: Good! Im in the right place!

I dont think my body language was good, I kept leaning in. I need to work on that.
I did do some light kino and shook everyones hand and asked their name.

I asked them how they know each other and they said they just met. So we continued some fluff talk and I turn to the HB8

Me: So have you been to any of these parties before.

Her: Yes, they had one called office CEO's and office hoes.

Me: Well, which one were you?

Her: I was not a CEO.

Me: your a bad girl arent you?

She smiles.

Her: What would you be?

Me: Office hoe?

Her: What would you wear?

Me: No shirt, a tie and a pair of pink silk boxers.

Me: Are you trying to imagine it.

Her: Yes. Smiles.

Me: Im not sure about you. I feel violated.

We talked a little more about my outfit, and then my wing man laughs and jumps in and says ass less chaps.

Im thinking...what a dumb as....

She then says what are those?

So we try to explain what they are and I told her I would look it up send her a pick.

A guy standing not to far away calls her, which later I found out it was her boyfriend.

It was funny though. I did talk to her again later that night and I was asking her where her boyfriend was and that if she were mine I would keep her close and I put my arm around her (with no resistance) from her and she said oh really and then I backed off quickly. But she stood close. I told her we should be friends and told her to give me her email and I would add her on facebook. She was putting it in my phone as her BF walked up. LOL

There werent many women at the first bar but there were a lot at the second bar. And there were a lot sets and I was buzzing. We ended up chatting with the bartender for half the night and with this couple. I swear this guys wife was giving me IOI's all night. I was starting to game this girl at the bar when I went to get a drink and asked her who do you think will get served first and the the wife of the couple put her arm around me and the girl walked away in the middle of the conversation. My wing and her husband cracked up. I was like damn... what a cock block. I told her she owed me a hook up and she said she would.

I got her facebook and number. Her BF or husband was really cool and didn't seem to mind.

I friend closed a couple people (women) and that seemed good but I didn't really game as well as I should have. I am considering going solo and sober next time. I found some cool places to run game at though so that seemed cool.

As the night progressed I got a call from a girl I F-Closed Friday. I was buzzed and my boy agreed to drive us to see them. We saw them and I was asked to do the cube on her friend. She was a really goofy chick that super shit tested me several times and my wing man totally joined... again, he can be cool but I think I need to talk to him about that. So guys.. only do the damn cube when you are alone with a chick. Not in front of an audience. This is a one on one cold read. Especially if you got a chick that is shit testing you. That was a bad idea on my part.

Anyway, there was a moment I was alone with her the girl I F-Closed and I was going to try and mess around but also keep in mind I was quite drunk. She hugged me tight and said....... "thats all you get".... lol

I laughed (fucking Mystery) and could only respond with "its whatever". I knew nothing was happening that night so we left and I can see where I got a few things to work on.

Dude,
You and me are on the same situation, I’m in my early thirties. Live alone. Sarge only during the day. Most of the Number close I got came are from bus sarging so I advise do not limit your gaming … Hope you the best of luck

I am working this social circle thing pretty hard. I can see the IOI's now so I think my natural game is getting stronger. I just went round two last night with the girl I had on Friday. I saw her Saturday and couldnt get anything going. It was at a happy hour with coworkers after work yesterday and I number closed a blonde HB8 and her friend HB7.

This is so much easier than the cold approach but I still want to get that down. Thanks for the good luck. I'll have to make myself run some bus game.

Feels like the game is on every time I am out, even to get a smoothie at the mall. I wish I read The Game about 10-12 years ago. I can only imagine where my game would be now but I realize its still not too late. Im am getting more and more confident with every interaction with women. Guys, good eye contact can really give off a great sexual vibe, and put the woman in that sexual frame if you do it right. I think it works well for me because I have hazel eyes, so I use it to my advantage.

I need to rewind a little because I am really starting to enjoy looking at my improvement. And I hope this helps anyone else out there starting out in the game.

6/25

The previous week I had been emailing two girls from work about a happy hour near by and my Friday night lay was one of them. There is this other one I have had a krush on for a long time but have not had the balls to do anything. So she now has a BF and I had almost given up. After reading up on the game and many other books I realized this girl damn near slapped me in the face with IOI's before she had a BF. So . We emailed back and forth and she told me we need to get a drink! I told her I agreed and said I would see her at one of the Happy Hours. I hoped to see her there but did not....

I walked into the resturant bar a little sweaty (I live in Houston TX) and it had to be in the 90's outside. So the bar is not that far from where I work (I dont have a car) so I walked. When I got there I went straight to the restroom and grabbed some paper towels and took my shirt off and dried myself off a little. I was not going to run sweaty game.

I got out of the restroom and walked towards the get together and saw my boss
- Chris! What are drinking? He bought me a drink. Im thinking sweet in front of everyone. I took it as a DHV. So I sit down at the big table with a bunch of coworkers and throw myself into thier conversation.

Chris is here! The party can start now! I said it playfully with confidence and everyone laughed. So I had a few drinks (all paid for by my boss) and then I chatted upevery single person in the group. The girl I got the lay from Friday was there but I didnt pay her much attention. This was my way of showing that I didnt care and if she wanted some that she could come and get it. Hehe...

I made sure to use good body language and to always position myself in a seat surrounded by women. I think I am close to mastering this manuever. I ended up sitting near some HB7 and a good HB8 Blonde and chatting them up. You should hear my opener.

So the HB8 was wearing these bedazzled sandals but she had a nice curvy figure. Very cute.

Me: Hey, you know your blinding me with those sandals right. (said it with a smile)

Her: (Smiles back) yeah, I like them.

Me: Im only saying that because you look so stunning in them.

Her: Thank you! Blah blah...fluff talk about clothes and jewlery.

So a little more fluff talk and strong direct eye contact. I negged about two more times and I was doing light Kino the whole time. I hugged her after my second neg, but I cant remember what I said but she seemed to embrace the hug and smiled. At the corner of my eye the Friday night lay noticed I hugged her. I think this really brought out a Jealousy plot. Awesome..

So I find out she is in town for a short time and she is a teacher and told her we should hang out and told her to give me her email so I can add her to face book. She had a long wierd email so I negged a little on that and saved it. I came back and told her she forgot to put her number, and that I would need to text her if I couldnt find her on face book and she jumped at the chance to give it to me. NC!

I simply approached a girl I new that had liked me and just straight up asked for her number and I think they were both friends so I felt really good about that. BAM NC2!

So I guess the jealousy plot worked, even though I did it unconciously. So lets call her "Double D". So DD sits down next to me and starts messing with me and pouring her drink into my drink and then telling me to chug. I drank it anyway even though it was margarita and frozen screwdriver. I think she was shit testing me. She gave some good body language and simply turned her whole body towards me and playfully chatted.

Her: I want to go.

Me: oh, your taking me home?

Her: yes (I never asked her to give me a ride so I knew it was on)

Me:Oh cool, your not in a rush are you? I want to finish my drink.

Her: No, lets shut this mutha down (she is really playful but drunk at this point)

Me: Hell yeah!

At this point I played it cool and drank a little over half of my drink and we left. As we were driving she kept telling me that we wouldnt do anything again and that she really was taking me home. I was like, sure take me home. I even told her to drop me off at the corner and i'll take the bus...

Take a wild guess where she drove me....BAM - Round 2! See my lay report.. I'll post that later.

6/27

I had to do this one seperately due to the different interactions and this conversation that I want to turn into an opener. Feel free to use my opener if you think it might work.

So I hoped see this "Krush" girl from work at this happy hour but she had to leave suddenly and could not make it, I went anyway and hoped to practice on the older women there and just be social.

So as soon as I walk up I see 3 managers and the rest are women from work. I walk up to all the women and give them hugs and fist bump or shake hands with the men.

I sit on the end and lean back with one arm hanging off the side of the chair with my legs as wide open as I can to take up space. I think this is good body language or least it seems to work for me.

There is this cute black girl from work about a HB7 that turned and looked at me and said hi and talked a little and she immeadiatelly started playing with her hair and made strong eye contact and touched me on my leg like 7-10 times. Even one light brush from her finger tips which kind of turned me on.....

Anyway - she immeadiately asked to take a picture with me and I was like uh... okay.

So we take one ..

Me: what do you like to do on the weekends?

Her: Here's my number! You need to add me on Facebook!

Me: Okay, slow down... im feeling a bit pressured here! (im smiling and she laughs)

So we fluff talked and flirted a bit I made strong eye contact and she escalated the Kino more than I did so I thought that was interesting. So I think I am just going to hold on to this one and plan the logistics well to get this lay. I really feel I can get this one. When we said goodby I kissed her on the cheek which she welcomed it I noticed, I am starting to notice that a lot of women that want a kiss on the cheek, will hug close and give space for you to lean over and kiss. I never noticed this before until now.
Is it still a KC if its not on the lips...well... BAM NC!



So thes ladies leave and I make sure to hug them all but not kiss them all. I then sit near the older but still kind of hot women that the going way happy hour was for and begin some fluff talk. KINO TIP:I do some light kino (a tap on the shoulder while looking the other direction) I think I got this down and never have had a wierd reaction. Not even once. During the conversation I will gradually leave my hand on the shoulder just a little longer. I also do sort of a side hug and if you are escalating correctly then this should go smooth. This side hug is usually after a neg or laughter which is connected to good feelings with my touch so I think this works well.

So a lot of fluff talk about favorite music and such and I brought up this question.

Possible opener:

Do you think its flirting if you compliment another woman while on a date?

Their response -No, or yes....she said no but I added more to it.

What if its how you say the compliment? Like hey you look really great in that top! (say in a playful sexy voice - lol)

This got her more involved in the conversation.

Then she mentioned if the girl was ugly then it wouldnt matter, it would not be considered flirting.

Then I said what if the girl was really hot, or even hotter than my date.

She then told me that I shouldnt say anything at all. That would be dangerous territory. She told me how women can be insecure.

I told her I learned a lot and made strong eye contact during this conversation and noticed she touched my leg and crossed her legs in my direction.

During this conversation I decided to see if I could do a little NLP so during the converstation I told her "so I should pay all my attention to my date. That makes sense." Then I pointed to myself smiling and said "im the attractive one, im the one you want, you should pay attention to me" then laughed but I was blatently pointing at my self so im not really sure if thats how you do it. It didnt seem like she was turned on or anything but maybe I just didnt do it right. Note to self... read up on NLP.

6/28

This morning I negged the "Krush" girl about not showing up twice for the happy hours by email and she responded quickly to meet up with her after work today. This is a one on one meeting so I would say I now have a date. BAM!

Game on Brothers!

Carry on!.. This is good sh*t!

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"They call me Hitman"

although i'm still a teen, I can relate to u on only being able to sarge during the day.
I'm to young to go out clubbing, and there aren't really any house parties during the summer. So my only option is daygame when I go to summer school twice a week.
I'm trying not to limit my opportunities tho.

Dude, my game is becoming more social circle building than anything. Not much day game or approaches. But being a single father, no car, and not a lot of money for dates. I think im not doing too bad. If I can run game then so can you. I go out clubbing but my club game still needs work. I will be doing this Saturday.

Keep sarging and keep your head up! Dude, work on your social circle. Hit the mall and approach chicks and just be friends, you can work your way into their circle if you just play it cool. If they think your cool then they will introduce you to their friends or hook you up even.

Game on brother!

6/28

Date with Krush Girl:

So we walk across the street and I pull out all the routines I can think of during this interaction. I really like this girl and I know she has a BF.

She said she wanted a sweet kiwie drink that was on the list from the menu and to build rapport I decided I would drink the same and told her I like to try different things. She said she likes girly drinks so I told her I am getting the same drink but Im getting the manly version. She laughed and we fluff talked a little about work and mortgage. A couple was next to us asked up what we were drinking and we told them but I threw in, but im drinking the manly version! They laughed so it was my way of showing I was social.

So I start asking her if you could do anything besides the mortgage stuff we do and she responded with a teacher. I am good at conversation so I caught the hook points and we had a good conversation. I was able to keep it moving the whole time.

I tried some qualification and asked if she was spontaneous and adventurous and got a real iffy response so I knew the qualification method was not going to work so I bailed on that route. I continued with some fluff talk and some light kino at this point. My trade mark touch the shoulder and look away. So the eye contact was very good and seem to flip a couple of switches at this point I could see she was attracted. She pulled a small piece of kiwi out of her drink when I was talking to her and slowly ate it and then sucked on her finger. I fuckin studdard over my words and completly forgot what I was saying. I think it was completely blatant and she meant to do it. Or maybe subconscious either way. I was like damn...

After that she really fucked me up. I was trying hard not to give IOI's off myself. At one point I used Jay Wa's line.

Hey, do me a favor. Put on a smile! It looks good on you!

OMG this shit is golden. If you havent read Jay Wa's stuff you need to.

She smiled laughed and said, damn that is a good one!

Even if she knew it was a line she fucking loved it.

I cant go over the whole time of talk we had so Im just going over the important parts where I knew I had attraction.

So at one point she joked with me about some martial art stuff and I actually take Brazillian Jiu Jitsu classes (DHV) so I mentioned that but I didnt bring it up, she did and she was being very clever with me and and said she could take me with her tiger claw.

I put my hand up and said show me your tiger claw grip. She put her hand up and grabbed my hand and are fingers weaved. She was like what do I do now?

I was like squeeze! She was like what... what do you mean how?

So we had are hands inter-weaved for a good minute or two while I told her I wanted to see how strong her grip was. And she finally squeezed my hand.

If that was not compliance then I dont know what is...

I explained I don't have a car and that I want to pay cash so Im saving up and I don't really feel like I need a car so it came off really confident about it and she didnt seem to look at me strangely because of it. I told her that its a 5 minute bus ride from and to work so she was cool with it.

So as the conversation went on it was just really cool. Learned about what she likes and what she did for fun.

Now, understand I know the boyfriend destroyers and the straw man.... but I decided against this. I have been on the other side of this so I decided to take the high road. This may not be the PUA mentality but I dont want to be that kind of PUA.

One of the last conversations I had with her is about how my great grand father is a curanderoro (mexican witch doctor/ healer) which is true according to my mother. So if perception is reality I think I am a relative of a spiritual person.

So I use that as a link to the CUBE - yes I read "The Game" and have studied up on the cube. So I am 90% accurate according to 3 girls I have done this on so far and I have banged 1 of the three so far I have done this on. So keep that in mind.

I told her I have dreams that come true sometimes but they are very vague and this I find is true. No bull shit. But you dont have to believe me. Only the women I game have too LOL.

Any way.....

She told me to tell her If I had any dreams of her to let her know so I can tell she was into the spiritual shit and the she loved that I did the cube on her.

I held back but then I can honestly say I had a dream of kissing a girl with dark hair held back in a pony tail like her and I kissed her. This is absolutely true. I had this dream, but I mentioned that my dreams are not a 100% (disqualifyer) and that I dont like her like that and she kind of just laughed and didnt really say much about it.

So we got a free martini form the bartender due to an extra one being made some how and we shared it and I walked her across the street to her car and she offered to take me home since I lived so close.

In the car I mentioned it would be cool to hang out again and that I need her contact info and she gave me her number and I told her I would send her an email of facebook. BAM! NC!

Like I said... i actually like this girl but I am willing to wait this one out or let it go because she is GF material and I dont want to win this one in a negative way. I have a prospect and a Double D that I could get again with no problem. At this time I want options and not a GF so I am okay with planting a seed and working my way into her heart with time. If not then I am realizing there are still options.

There are too many single women out there for me to be a BF destroyer. If they become available then that is all good but I think just using natural game and with out BF destroyers, then you can get the girl if you want. So I am fine with this. If my game isnt good enough then I need to look else where. I am focusing on the many not the one...

Game on brothers!

6/28

So I am a little drunk and I am not keeping up with my idea of gaming sober, but I will get there. This is a drunk recollection of my interactions tonight.


So I come home early and expect to read "The Rules of the Game " by Neil Strauss. I have really been pass a lot of the first few missions and I see that I need to skip to ahead to some of the missions. I Already have a date before I bought the book so I thought I would just hit the missions on my sticking points.

So the power is out at my apt because of some storm in the area and I started texting double D but I knew she would probably be with her so callled dude this weekend so I also called a different chic I had not talked to in a while and set up a possible date tomorrow and a meet up at a club so I that is going to happen for sure.

I decided to walk to this local Bennigans at the corner that just opened up....

So I sat there and ordered my food and a couple of drinks while reading and thinking... I dont need these first five missions... I have done these on my own....

As I read the stuff on approach anxiety, the bartender asked me what are you reading?

Me: The rules of the Game.

Her: What kind of game...dating....

Me: yup.... dating...

She walked away really busy and the conversation was cut short right there.

So about 25 minutes pass and I a just don't want to be in my apt. with no electricity so i am fine with my appetizer and alcohol.


I then feel a tap on my shoulder and low and behold , a girl I once had one-ites on and just got married (that I am over) walked up to me and said hi. With her husband. They sat next to me and we chatted and I just did my thing with the fluff talk. I also mentioned the PUA stuff and reading and that I think I am picking on the game being social. They seemed very interested and so I just keep talking about it because I am really enjoying this journey and they mentioned how they wanted to hook me up with this really cool blonde friend of theirs.


In between all this I mentioned about my goals...DHV practice and how I was practicing game and PUA mentality. And how some shit worked.... I dont think they took it seriously and even mentioned the cube....

We ended up meeting with the manager of the bar sitting outside. The friend I once had oneitise for that was married opened up the manager of the bar and her roomate. She needed some kind of sponser for her company and gamed the manager. I think I liked this girl a long time ago because I realized, she gamed anyone she came into contact with. With in minutes she was best friends with this girl, exchanging numbers and giving her high fives. Me and her husband were just sitting back smoking a cig and watching .....

I thought to my self that damn... this is game... on the same sex... I need to learn from this! This bar manager told her she would do anything for her. And it was amazing so I just watched and tried to learn how she go people so committed to her.

She got this girl to support all kinds of shit for her company like drinks and shit and number closed her.

I noticed me and her husband were in the background of this conversation not doing anything for a good 3 minutes...


I pulled a seat right up and jumped in the conversation....


I had no idea what they were talking about but I turned the conversation around to what I wanted....


I asked questions about what I knew about. (the take over)

She was a 23 year old bar tender manager that was already fucked up. So compliments were good. I told her how I like how she took charge and thought that was cool. I totally changed the subject and started talking about how she got in to the marketing business and how she knew people.

The girl bought like three shots for all of us sitting there and we got a drink bought from her roommate.


She loved us and I was dipping in the conversation every two minutes with meaningless shit but just grabbing on too hook points that I could relate too. Ass soon as her room mate got up , I took the seat next to her. She was an HB6 at best but she was a powerful female with high status that talked a lot about how she dated guys that took her to different places and shit. I just mentioned I worked for a mortgage company that loves Happy Hours and that I might be able to bring business to her.

I also kept flirting with her and kept some real good eye contact and totally took over the frame from my female friend who kicked me in the leg during my conversation with the target. She knew I was running game. And I kicked her back to let her know to back off..This girl knew Tosh.2.0 , Mario Williams, and many other connections... and told me just to name drop her that she knew a lot of people and she did.... So .... BAM NC! Thats right....I didnt get it from my friend but from the target.... a few IOI's and it was on.... I left with my friends and she was tripping on my skills... game on brothers.... if I can do this then you can!!!!

I totally intercepted and scored a touch down! I feel like Deon Sanders after a touchdown....

Game on!