Hey there! So I don't have any issues with approaching or keeping the conversation going, but when it comes time to close and ask for her number, I think thats where I always mess up. After having a conversation with her for a few minutes and one of us has to go, I usually say something kind of dumb like "Hey I have to go, but I was wondering if your single if I could possibly get your number?"

I know people usually say stuff like "Hey there is a party going on tonight if you would like to join" or something similar, but I don't party at all. Also, I'm mostly just approaching women in stores or on the street, not bars or clubs or anything.

Does anyone have some advice on what a better closer would be to get her number, or is mine okay despite my bad luck with it?

Thanks!

After done talking tell her it was nice talking to her and then turn around and turn back around and say you seem like a really fun person we should connect more can I get your number?

Sounds like solid advice, the pump fake turn around feels like its from a movie though haha

Cool thank you I'll keep that one in mind.

Cut out anything related to their marital status. It's too deep and cheesy for a close that quick, especially day game in shops.

The connect more one is good.

If in a shop, why not go on an instant date, i.e for a coffee @ Starbucks or another place. That way you can get deeper into things, but don't keep things going for too long. Seen as your in day game, don't make it seem as if you have all day.

Remember not to self: I'm important, I'm busy, I have places to be. Have that kind of frame in mind. I did and worked wonders. Saves you appearing like you have nothing better to do even if you don't!

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Great advice, that helps out a lot. I will definitely stick to the connect one, and possibly try for an instant date if it feels right. There is a Starbucks in the mall so that would be perfect. And thats a good point about having that "I'm busy" frame of mind, I'll definitely remember that. Thanks a lot for your advice!

Definitely tell her to give you her number don't ask for it. You assume you are going to get it by telling her to put it in your phone, handing her your phone, giving her a pen & paper, etc. You don't need some excuse like a party or whatever. You like her, she likes you, # close. Another thing I may say to a woman is, "Do you text?" and then get her # from there.

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Your welcome!

JSmooth has also offered some very good advice.

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Thanks a lot yeah thats all great advice, I'll remember that. Also, one more question thats a little off topic. Do you have more luck with direct or indirect openers? When approaching ladies on the street or in the mall during the day, I can't decide if its best to say something like "Hey I just noticed you from over there, had to come over and introduce myself" and go from there, or if I should use a more indirect one, such as "Hey do you know where X store is?" I'm sure either one would be fine, but I'm curious as to what you guys prefer. Thanks again!

Obviously it's personal preference but during day game I'd use indirect openers. Women tend to be more off guard and less chance of having their bitch shield up, so go in easy with no pressure and see how you progress? That's me.

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ask her to come home with you then she knows the deal

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Stop the small talk and just tell her you want to call her sometime, so she should give you her number. Tell her she looks smart and interesting and you want to see if there's anything beyond what meets the eye. She'll be impressed and curious about you then, if she finds you attractive, will give you her number. For example, I sat down next to a girl who I had never met before and asked if I could call her. No small talk, no comfort building, nothing. Just got right to the point. She was impressed and gave it to me. Then I told her to give me a kiss on the cheek, and she did it. On both cheeks. Then I was on my marry way.

That simple? Great I will remember that, it will save some time also. Thanks!

This is a terrible idea

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Keep in mind, don't do this unless you trust yourself, you must have confidence. If you aren't confident, don't try to fake it women can tell. They have intuition.

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