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Okay this happened to me today. So comments..
This girl and I know each other but we never really talked much, we some classes together and so on. I have a reputation as a player and she knows basically all about it for some reason...
So near my university is a shopping mall, I was talking over to it and she and I met her and her guy friend on the way.
After a while she just started talking about how she hates players, first I thought she is just mad at one hurting her and is generalizing... later I got the more subtle hints that she was referring to me(as in looking accusingly at me while bad mouthing players...bitch).
She kept on saying she won't fall for us and so on and on.. I gave no reaction. A few minutes on she just said to me Hey (my name) you're a player you know(she said this as if she was mad at me!! I never made out or slept with her or one of her friends)
I just said that is not what I would call it. And moved on. Later on she said this guy we both know, is more smooth than me(wtf???) I didn't know how to respond as this was not related to the topic, and I know the guy... he is as smooth as a porcupine. But I said nothing.
I need advice on what happened above as I would like to seduce this girl(yeah yeah ego... But I'm in university and doing stupid things is a prerequisite)
And also advice on how to handle this stuff in the future as I think it will happen a lot more if I'm here for 4 more years...Mostly I use the "I am a man and I won't apologize for going after what I want" line. Should I stick to this or any other way? And any tips or whatnot on handling resistance that will happen because of my rep.
Having a player rep. is not that bad, it mean you get girls(abundance) with that being said, the girls is looking for (security), she does not want to get used or hurt, this is what you need to do, it works, i done it many times never a problem, since i have one of the worst reputations, even my gf questions me every once in a while, but that is another story here is what you do and what to say do not change the context:
Listen i am not a player, i just date and i am 100% honest and upfront with every girl, i tell them that i am seeing other people... most people SETTLE(key word super important) they overlook wrongs and red flags just because they do not want to be alone, see you do not truly get to know somebody after minimum 6 months that you are with them, so in other for me to avoid wasting time, i just date and when i find the girl that i really like the real her, not the best foot forward at the beginning of dating,then i am 100% exclusive, But what i am not gonna do is spend 6 months to a year or more with the wrong person just to settle, do you see what i mean? hb: yes that is so true... The whole story is a dhv(community lingo whatever)... Now i really like______________(whatever you like about her) and i would like to get to know you now if you are the right person for me and we end up together, i am 100% exclusive...
It works dude!
There's truth in this, but bullshit to the max. Hehe
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