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Ethically problematic ? Invasion of personal space ?
Are you a virgin ?
I see , I go in , I stay until either she leaves alone or with me.
If you approach a girl and she declines your advances, folds her arms and says:
"Go away, I'm here with my friends for a good time and you are just not my type. I'm sure you would be a very nice boyfriend for someone else but I have no interest in you."
And you do the exact opposite of what is suggested. You stick around and continue to press on.
How can she possibly turn you down? Does she actually have to flee from you or physically assault you before you get the message? How long will she have to wait before you come to an understanding that she doesn't want to sleep with you. It's a cliche, but sometimes "no does means no" not once does your post even consider the idea that a woman might turn you down because she simply isn't into you.
When we are talking about ethics and sex, consent is vital and this attitude that a woman doesn't have the right to turn you down -to effectively withdraw her consent- is one of those beliefs that should be taken out back and shot.
On a less dramatic note:
Sometimes you have entered set so badly -or just met a girl in a nasty head space *insert any number of factors from being married, to being a lesbian*- that you won't recover from it. That's fine, there is no need to annoy people to help protect an ego. Just move on, plenty more fish in the sea.
Persistence works when you are already getting positive vibes and need to keep going until ambiguous "I like this guy, but I'm not sure" vibes turn into "I'm going to go home with this guy and fuck" vibes, it won't on its own however, make a "this guy is a creepy asshole" vibe transform into a "I want to ride this guys cock" vibe.
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