look man no one here doubts that you can get the girl ok, what were trying to tell you is that there are better, more effective ways of getting her, sense this post has begun you still havent hooked up with her all your doing is getting your jollies off of her chasing you like a puppy, you do do some quality things with her but you need to reflect, someone who actually knows there stuff on here could have already been with her way sooner than if they used your aproach aswell as left her a better person and that what you are doing is not leaving her a better person, but someone who now will continue to look for someone who will treat her like shit and make her have low self esteem, all that and your probably just gonna hit it a quit it. what you need to do now because she is attracted to you, is increase comfort and start turning things sexual, and for pete sake by this point she has earned some validation, give it to her and boost her self esteem a bit youll get laid in no time and feel good about yourself. do this and post the update cause i want this end good. later man.

Ok I hear you man

can you give me some advice on closing the target?

and would you agree I have her now ??

Ok I hear you man

can you give me some advice on closing the target?

and would you agree I have her now ??

how do i validate her without making myself sound like I want her??

ok well at this point you might have overdid it but from the sound of it she still has intrest in you, next time you see her what you wanna do is go and talk to her and create some comfort, talk about her motivations ect. then start moving things toward being sexual, start kino escilating and as far as validating, its not bad for her to know that you want her, your talking to her because you find her good looking but you wanna come off as though you are the man and that looks are not enouph for you you need looks and personality, so how you wanna validate her is when she does something you ask or if she compliments or almost any kind of compliance you then you compliment her as a reward but gauge the reward based on what your asking of her. treat it as if your validation is a reward but for best results keep your compliments original not what most guys would say. once things start getting sexual, you can feel the connection in the room, think about it as though she has sparked your intrest finaly and that you think she might be a very awsom girl but you wanna find out. tell her your going somewhere and that she can tag along, this way it displays that you are gradeing her and if she rejects you that doesnt mean she doesnt like you and it gives you the chance to show it doesnt affect you at all, if she rejects you infront of other people even better(depending on your reaction), smile, laughph as though it didnt even fase you and she is the one missing out but its ok if you dont like fun and you can ask her out again later. when talking to girls you dont wanna throw on a persona that isnt you, adopt the mind frame that your talking to them to have fun not to have sex and eventually your game will begin to show natrually without you even thinking about it. as for closing it really depends on what kind of closing your looking for but if you read the situation after kino escilation depending on how far you are with her, it should just come to you. try to end it with atleast a kiss or more and a second date will tell you are doing it right.


here are some links i think will help also start researhing some inner game theorys they will litaraly transform your game overnight

http://youtu.be/AbJSrUJDL0g
http://youtu.be/vj4igcsX3L8 (the spin move here is a good example of validation)

good luck let me know how it goes

I took your advice and watched those videos

I went into work today with a game plan that would make me N-close
Work is a long game...It should be called the work game??

I waited for my chance to hit the target hard and my moment came in the photocopying room. I walked in and said " how is the nun today?"..."she said "how am I a nun" ....I said "You are so no fun??..then she says "I am loads of fun"

I grabbed her shoulders and put them facing me..I then said " Give me your phone"..so she gave me her phone and I proceed to type in my number and I grabbed her hand and looked her straight in her eyes and said " when you want to prove that ...text me"?

She had a flip phone and I slammed it shut and placed it into the hand I was holding and walked straight off without looking back

I caught a smile as I turned my head she was ready to cum all over herself the wet bitch

Just going to wait for her text now

ok well it appears she is maintaining intrest in you, but i feel you could have took this farther. some things i might add for future refrences, one when getting the phone number its not bad to also get hers, worse case scenerio, she doesnt text you back which could happen even if they like you, now when you want to text her you have to get her number which extremely complicates things, but it did show a considerable amount of confidence because it shows you arnt worried if she doesnt reply but you know she is, bravo on that. also you neged her again but this time you atleast did it right, i was hoping you would take this farther and built more of a connection first, but atleast when you guys form a meeting then you definately need to show validation or your going to come off as a jerk instead of the bad boy, but overall it looks like things are going good, keep it up.