I meet a girl threw a friend i would say is a 9. We started talking over the phone/text and got her really interested. After talking for a couple weeks we set it up for me to come to her house and chill with her and everything went really good, im a very playful person so it was really easy to make her laugh and have a good time. Only problem was she had to babysit her two little cousins so i couldnt fuck her but i did kiss her atleast lol. 3 days later she text me that she misses me and wants me to come over again so i did and once again everything went good and i fucked her this time. At this point im falling for her even though my oringinal plan was to just fuck her lol. This goes on for about 3 or 4 months and she has came to my house and ive fucked her numerous times, it got to a point where she was calling me every single night/every morning before she goes to school ect i wasnt even initiating none of it because she was always blowing my phone up lol i mean if she called and i was away from my phone she would call me like 3 times. So of course by now im like she is really into me so im about ready to make her my girlfriend officially. So one night im texting her while she is at work and long story short i BASECALLY ask her to be with me and she text back "i like you but i have a boyfriend and I dont know what to do" So im like we went threw all this for you to tell me that like wtf!!! so i just stop textin her and i decided to ignore her and she went crazy! she called two time in a row and then she text me "Are you really gonna ignore me" but i stuck to my guns and then the next day she texts me "aye what the hell yo why are you ignoring me" lol so i just play it cool and said im not ignoring you what are you talking about. To be honest with you i ended up talking to her again and keep on gaming like a dumbass and things went back to normal. She was calling all the time, if i told her i would call her back didnt she would get mad, if she didnt hear from me for a couple days she would get mad lol, and it she even had the nerve to get mad if i talked to other girls/fucked other girls and if her friends told her they seen me with another girl she would get really mad and jealous(im like bitch you have a fucking boyfriend lmao) i was still fucking her and she would still come see me. She would tell me shes going out with her boyfriend and as soon as she gets bak home she would call me/text me while shes with him. Im not going to lie to yall i fucked up and fell for this girl and i honestly dont wanna let her go even if we can just be friends i want her in my life but i dont know what to do or how this will pan out. As for her boyfriend his is 4 years older than her and hes a pussy as far as i know(she told me is to sensitive and always wants to talk about his feelings and told me she was thinking about breaking up with because of that) But i need some advice hear ASAP from yall and has anbody been in a similar situation?????

Wait, so you want to be with her?

Gettin' her to ditch the boyfriend is some serious business in the first place, and you gotta realize that she's not above doing the same thing to you if you end up with her. I mean, do you see anything solid (besides sex) happening with this girl? I normally just intend on fucking them and letting the rest be what it is when they have boyfriends they're willing to cheat on. You're just asking for drama.

Think long and hard about what you want out of this and then take the steps to get there. I personally don't think it's a good idea for you to get emotionally involved when she's already messing with your head and you haven't even started dating her!

I tend not to get involved with women who are already in relationships simply because if they're willing to stray once, it'd be foolheartedy to believe that they wouldn't do the same with me.

A secure woman would end the relationship she's currently in if it's not working out, and insist on taking things slow with a new guy. I don't involve myself with relationship hopers as her faithfulness would always be looming there somewhere in the back of my mind.

Here are the facts:
-She's in a relationship
-She's not, at this point at least, willing to part ways with him
-She knows you'll always fold on ignoring her and before long you two will be fucking again
-She's having her cake and eating it without so much as a hint of any remorse
-You can't be friends with her, you want her and it'd be too agonizing for you to be on the outside looking in forever wishing you had more

It's a lose/lose situation by sticking around and you know this, you simply don't want to come to terms with it as the pain you'd experience not having in her life, though short, seems less palpable than the pain of keeping her IN your life (total pain experienced over time will be far greater than the pain of moving on without her).

I suggest you extricate yourself from the situation, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. I get the sneaking suspicion however, that you'll have to burn yourself a few more times before learning your lesson.