Do the parking lot thing or don't.

I've learnt that PUA doesnt' really exist as such. There's no right or wrongs. PUA is just about doing it. Freaked her out in the parking lot? Oh well her loss move on. She found it cute? Bingo take her out.

Many people will give you do's and don'ts. Ignore most. One thing isn't going to change the way a girl thinks about you unless it's extreme. Like she finds you in a bush with binoculars outside her house.

I still think the parking lot thing is creepy, but I definitely like Chris's style.

Chris, thanks for understanding. Even though people think what I did was creepy, and she thought it was creepy, I had no other way to talk to her alone in class....shes with friends or busy. I still feel I did the right thing, approaching her, otherwise I would have regretted it......yeah I could have sat beside her, went to class early and started a convo, but I didn't feel like playing this childish games...

One time in class, a group of people watched us as she was talking to me and started to smile and say stuff like "she likes you"....as soon as she heard it, she became quiet/stopped talking and basically curled up lol. So I knew I wouldn't be able to talk to her in class.

I just hope that she has her own brain (not her friends) and can understand that what I did was genuine/real and not creepy...I wasn't trying to hook up with her...just talk over lunch.

BTW, it wasn't exactly the parking lot, it was near the parking lot closer to class etc.

I'm not a stalker honestly, I was just really interested in this girl (first time too), and did whatever I could to try to talk to her....

I feel bad for creeping her out, but I don't regret what I did.

Says the guy on the internet.

Lol, I suddenly am just laughing at the whole situation.

This girl that I liked is crazy. Shes still pretty, but really weird. I'm glad I actually got it over with asking her, otherwise I would not be able to approach the next girl.

she's not crazy, you're just framing her as such to justify her rejection towards you.

Call a spade a spade. But hey, whatever it takes to cut your losses and move forward.

Not sure why "move on" and "game other girls" is such popular advice in this forum.

Moving on prior to DOING ANYTHING is not game. Move on to what? Game other girls how? Look, if a guy can't communicate his intentions effectively enough to game a girl who is 100% into him, what chances does he have for the next 100 girls?

You guys assume too much from girls. You think that they live by some female code, have a ton of dating experience, and behave with some logical intent. Look, this girl is/was into the OP, following him around everywhere, and when he took the hint and went right up to her, she simply got nervous. She hadn't planned this far. She's now kicking her self in the ass thinking, "What am I going to do now?" - and she could even delude herself into thinking that she was never that into the OP in the first place . . . all simply out of nervousness. (Lots of emotions/fantasies/ideas built up in four month period!) She could also be thinking that she F'd it up forever . . . (Chicks . . . )

Few months ago, I thought I'd check up on my nephew's(he's 14) 'game' in case he might need some assistance. I asked him how he goes about asking girls out and he answered, "Just make it like it's no big deal. . . Hey, how about _____" - I didn't inquire any further.

Gochi, ^this is all you need to do. Waiting for her in the parking lot is not really a big deal but it was an 'event'. It was a 'show down'. You cornered her a bit. You don't need to ignore her nor do you need to chase her down. When she's around . . . and she's around ALL THE TIME, you just 'make it like it's no big deal . . '

And I don't think enough of you appreciate 'kino' for what it is. It's not just a tool sexually escalate. Closing a 'physical gap' also closes an 'emotional gap'. It increases trust and it lowers nervousness. There's a reason why we hug. . . why we offer fist bumps . . .why we shake on a deal. There's a reason why you hold somebody's shoulder when offering intimate thoughts. Appreciate it for what it is and utilize it.

thanks Kasabi - your advice is appreciated.

oh man - she is crazy! This is the first girl I have seen do some of the most cutest yet weird things when I am around.

Funny thing is, I don't feel rejected because I know she still likes me....it's okay with me I can respect that I think.

Thanks for the talk fellas'

I'm not so sure I agree, she does sound crazy. I am going to give the poster the benefit of the doubt hat he is telling the truth, or the story is what he says. Most girls are crazy, especially when they are young.

Only you really know, but I wouldn't lose any sleep, in any event, crazy, rejecting, she sounds totally not worth it.

I had a 40 yo, hot petite, southern thing that was all over me for weeks! She was grabbing me, we were fooling around like crazy, she blew me while her 11 yo golden retriever watched from the corner of her bed !?!? She was always saying how my smell drove crazy...then one day...it stopped....she even tried to flip it that I was crazy...I hadn't changed at all...I just shrugged it off and laughed...point she was nuts...it had nothing to do with me. We still talk from time to time and she tried to say insulting things sometimes, I just laugh at her....she is such a loser...hot little body, sucks a great dick....but there are better ones out there.

Stop playing chutes and ladders and play the real game

That is a great quote. I mean isn't the whole point of strengthening your pick skills, is to date the type of girls YOU want to? And the slobs that throw themselves at you?