i dont know why it took me this long to ask this,but I need advice on how to make an genuine impression. Im talking about the kind of impression where after I leave the room,three hours later shes still thinking about me.Not foot print in the snow,bomb crater impression.

To put my question in more of a practical sense,im going out for this girls birthday next saturday who I havent seen in a while. Now ive known this girl since high school,ive also hit on this girl shamelessly,but ive still been delegated to the friend zone. Ive come to terms with this for reasons that I wont go into,but still,I want to make an impression that for the lack of a better term rocks her world.

I know look has alot to do with it,nice clothes,well groomed,etc. Ive also lost a bit of weight too,so i know that will come into play.my problem,simply,is attitude. I know theres a fine balance between afc and asshole where PUA resides,any advice to get me relatively close to that is appreciated.

Note:this is not a sad attempt to break out of the friend zone. Its more an attempt to get away from being an afc.

Good start Kak. Now you see the core problem with many guys is that they try to do something to the GIRL so that their game is better. The right thing to do would be to do something to yourself to improve your game. Instead of thinking how do get a girl to think about me think how do I make myself so good that girls will think about me. The main thing is not to lose sight of where your headed. Your goal should be to improve your life and make yourself a better person. Know your place and value. Understand what your worth and what's special about you. Picture yourself as the person you want to be. Rich, having lots of girls, having parties, traveling, driving a ferrari. Now the only thing preventing you from getting there is YOU. Guys limit themselves by their beliefs. All you have to do is understand what your real worth and let yourself lose. Good luck!

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