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After that she didn't say much.

Me: yesss, what is it?
Me: Hername
Her: yess
Me: why the embarassed face
Her: Nothingggg

This is complicated now lol, should I chase or let it go?
Stop replying.

The embarrassed face thing could have been treated like a shit test. Some responses you could have used (don't feel bad you didn't get em, just keep gaming like nothing happened):
"Oh what, you don't want to know my dream now? No appreciation for my creativity"
"*down syndrome face*"
"_____her name *embarrassed face*"
"You should be embarrassed. You spelled my name wrong." "[no i didn't, how?]" "it's actually spelled 'Stud McMan'"

Basically any dumb joke would diffuse the tension here. Don't call attention to the tension, just change the subject to what you want.


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Told her: I'll just stop
Her reply: Noooo
Me: Then be with me
Her: mynameee
Me: hernameee
Her:


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After that she didn't say much.

Me: yesss, what is it?
Me: Hername
Her: yess
Me: why the embarassed face
Her: Nothingggg

This is complicated now lol, should I chase or let it go?
Stop replying.

The embarrassed face thing could have been treated like a shit test. Some responses you could have used (don't feel bad you didn't get em, just keep gaming like nothing happened):
"Oh what, you don't want to know my dream now? No appreciation for my creativity"
"*down syndrome face*"
"_____her name *embarrassed face*"
"You should be embarrassed. You spelled my name wrong." "[no i didn't, how?]" "it's actually spelled 'Stud McMan'"

Basically any dumb joke would diffuse the tension here. Don't call attention to the tension, just change the subject to what you want.
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Not letting me post my whole post for some reason. But after that, she sent a heart and I replied with one.

D2 is dinner at a fancy restaurant on Saturday, but not sure if I'll get her back to my place. We'll see how it goes I guess. Until then, I'll probably text her less


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Told her: I'll just stop
Her reply: Noooo
Me: Then be with me
Her: mynameee
Me: hernameee
Her:
Suggestion: In the future... when starting a scenario, look at the reason... It's not just to waste time for her. I don't send a text to a girl without a motive. Each word is planned for purpose. I'm trying to steer her in a direction (direct or indirect), and based on the conversation, I drive accordingly. ALWAYS plan several routes the conversation can go. Always have different things to say. Think about the way the conversation can go...plan for it.

Role plays, fantasies, envisioning you, Neg'ing..... ALL of that is to implant on her brain a message - that you're funny, engaging, exciting and her accomplice - you take her to those sexy places nobody else does! From there, escelate.

But, these are guidelines, not scripts. You have to understand the concept of why you're texting her in the manner with which you're texting her - then go after that goal.

Be a duck... calm and cool on the surface, but underwater, you're paddling like a madman deciphering her body language, tells, IOIs, words....etc...

Good luck!

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Told her: I'll just stop
Her reply: Noooo
Me: Then be with me
Her: mynameee
Me: hernameee
Her:
Suggestion: In the future... when starting a scenario, look at the reason... It's not just to waste time for her. I don't send a text to a girl without a motive. Each word is planned for purpose. I'm trying to steer her in a direction (direct or indirect), and based on the conversation, I drive accordingly. ALWAYS plan several routes the conversation can go. Always have different things to say. Think about the way the conversation can go...plan for it.

Role plays, fantasies, envisioning you, Neg'ing..... ALL of that is to implant on her brain a message - that you're funny, engaging, exciting and her accomplice - you take her to those sexy places nobody else does! From there, escelate.

But, these are guidelines, not scripts. You have to understand the concept of why you're texting her in the manner with which you're texting her - then go after that goal.

Be a duck... calm and cool on the surface, but underwater, you're paddling like a madman deciphering her body language, tells, IOIs, words....etc...

Good luck!
Right now, I'm working on getting the idea of f-closing in her head. I'm being pretty direct, but I got myself in a corner so to speak haha.

Me: You could be in my bed tonight
Her: I know but we couldn't do anything
Me: We could, but it would be "bad", or maybe it's only bad if you don't like it
Her: It would be bad cause it would be cheating

Where can I take it from here? Back off or keep going


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It's on but you're not handling the situation correctly. You should just shut the hell up and stick with the seduction.

Call her and tell her she looked pretty or something and you want to see her. If she brings up the boyfriend just say, "I don't want your boyfriend, I want you." Then hang up. If she contacts you after that and tells you that you are rude, say, "Listen Isabelle, we are 2 mature people. I am just being honest and I find you very attractive but I will never apologize for what I want." Then hang up again.

This was unnecessary for example:

Me: don't be sad
Her: Im sad about things with us
Me: but you have a boyfriend you love
her: i knowww
Me: Should we stop talking
her: why would i want to do that
me: your unhappy with our situation

STAY IN TOUCH WITH YOUR SEXUALITY. You want to fuck her, you want to put your cock in her mouth. Do not let her stir up your need for a girlfriend or you will be playing the boyfriend role. You are not there to convince her who is better, you will only be fighting an uphill battle.. She wants it all. A lover and a boyfriend.

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Right now, I'm working on getting the idea of f-closing in her head. I'm being pretty direct, but I got myself in a corner so to speak haha.

Me: You could be in my bed tonight
Her: I know but we couldn't do anything
Me: We could, but it would be "bad", or maybe it's only bad if you don't like it
Her: It would be bad cause it would be cheating

Where can I take it from here? Back off or keep going
It's a two steps forward, one step back game. You've taken your two steps forward, take one back. "You're right, I know you're not a bad girl :P"

After that, stop doing this. You're openly contesting her boyfriend. A good girlfriend can't put up with that for long. Wait until you can see her. Your intentions have been stated. She's either going to follow through with it when you see her or she's not, don't rock the boat.

To Chris2k10, I have a feeling that he's young, 15-16. It has that sort of vibe to it. Your tactic would be surprisingly mature to her, she wouldn't understand why he didn't have a strong emotional reaction to her and could be so honest. (buff, can you confirm if you're that age?)


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It's a two steps forward, one step back game. You've taken your two steps forward, take one back. "You're right, I know you're not a bad girl :P"

After that, stop doing this. You're openly contesting her boyfriend. A good girlfriend can't put up with that for long. Wait until you can see her. Your intentions have been stated. She's either going to follow through with it when you see her or she's not, don't rock the boat.

To Chris2k10, I have a feeling that he's young, 15-16. It has that sort of vibe to it. Your tactic would be surprisingly mature to her, she wouldn't understand why he didn't have a strong emotional reaction to her and could be so honest. (buff, can you confirm if you're that age?)[/quote]

Makes sense, that's what I did afterwards was take a step back. Stopped texting her and then she wanted me to call her. Called her, told her I was going to fuck her, and then said goodnight. She's young, around that age. I'm 19. Hah


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