Keep in mind I had already done this prior to posting this...I did this exact scenario after taking her to a clipper game...I made a purpose of telling her (Like Tidy said) that I'm a sexually charged person, but I can hold it back and that's not what I'm all about...That night was great, we connected and later on just slept (no sex) with each other that night...

Now moving on to today and yesterday...The plan went sour...She came over and cooked for me...We ate, enjoyed ourselves then layed on the couch and started marathoning a show...I started to initiate teasing (so that I could cut her off!), but she was cutting me off a bit...We'd makeout a little and there was maybe one time where I cut her off, but she didn't try hard to reinitiate...We rubbed on each other interlocked legs, crap like that, but she began to get tired and so she went to sleep in my bed...

I was pi$$ed off and didn't even wanna hug with her in the bed, but she latched on to me so it felt alright...the next morning I started initiating more kissing and stuff, then I finally asked her if something was wrong...She was like nothing is wrong she's just tired in the morning (This is the same girl who has blessed me, sexed me, and jacked me in the morning in previous weekends)..

I finally snatched my arms from around her and said "Your killing me..."She was all like because you can't have sex? So I was like because you really don't seem engaged as much this weekend...I'mma grown man, and I know what I want..I'm pretty affectionate and if I'm only gonna see I girl I'm dating pretty seriously just 1-2 times a week I wanna be that way with them...

She came back to hug and kiss me, but everything felt $hitty and fake up until she abruptly left for her aunt's birthday which wasn't for a few more hrs, so she didn't have to leave...

So I don't know where I stand..Cleary I fucked up somewhere in here...Please critique me (helpfully^^) and give me options moving forward (should I call or text her with something?)...I'm thinking of just falling back hard for like 4-5 days, but I don't know, because up until I called her on the sex, we seemed to be having a great connection that night (which made the lack of sex evenmore frustrating)...

I thought chilling out hard on clipper game night would get me highly rewarded yesterday, but it was evenmore puzzling...

Let me offer a slightly different piece of advice than what's been presented already: take this girl on a date during which there is zero chance for anything sexual to happen. Make a point out of NOT sleeping with her, but don't specifically draw attention to it.

This will demonstrate that you are interested in more than just her body, which could be all she is looking for when she 'criticizes' you for being too sexual.

Your boy,
870

Your advice is great. I think that will be my next move. Anyhow, i am curious , what's so special about number 870?