So it didn't take much for me to go from AFC to getting girls easily. I basically developed balls, changed my body language, learned to escalate, and became less nervous. Honestly the best thing I did, which I recommend to all is to shave your head to like a 3 unless you have good hair. My natural buddies from HS convinced me of this and man do girls say I'm hot now when I don't think I look that different. I could have f closed 4 girls by now, but lets just say I was not ready. I'm 21. I've watched porn for 10 yrs and I've basically blown it way out of proportion. I decided to stop watching porn recently. I've got a really hot girl I've started seeing and I'm ready to lose it to her. It's just a question of when I decide to. Except of course its got to be sooner than later or she'll find another guy. But I want to hear from you guys. What was losing your virginity like? How long did u know her, how hot was she, how nervous were you, how did it affect you, how old, and anything interesting. My life is about to change and I would really like to hear your guy's experiences in losing the v-card? I'm not so much worried about being a great f- buddy, she will know I'm a virgin and I don't care about that as much. I know I can get other girls so I don't blow that part out of proportion.

Look, I am 21, virgin and no gf. I am on this forum to get a gf for myself. I love sex, eventually I will not remain virgin anymore. You are thinking of sex as a really big of a deal. Just let it flow, and never ever ever tell her that ur a virgin, until you hit the heated moment when you two have sex. Just have fun and let the sex come spontaneously for you. You sound like a needy loser about sex. Yes all of us are horny, but we don't care about ohters opinions on how it felt like when we had sex. Just experience it yourself, just like you never asked anyone before how did it feel like when you took a bite off your piece of cake. And why in the world will you be nervous? If you are the man, then you should conquer sex like a champ. You should be fucknig the shit out of your gf, give her fantastic orgasms, and honestly she can care less about you being a virgin, bc if she does, then you are with a shallow person and you shouldn't be with someone who just likes sex from you only. Think of this as not losing your virginity, but being born as a sexual man. You will learn, its your first time, so don't try to be perfect. There is no such thing as perfect. Just let the sex come in as easily as possible. You said you developed balls, but you are still whining like a girl. Just go and fuck your gf man and enjoy your sex life. It really doesn't matter if the guy is a virgin, it matters if the girl is virgin. Have fun.

Dude I have emotions bro. It's ok to get nervous about this type of stuff. UR a virgin and doing way worse than me so who are you to tell me this and that. Yeah I'll fuck girls like a beast or whatever but right now I'm at a big moment in my life and it is nervewracking when you do it for the first time. I'll tell her I'm a virgin right before we're getting it on. It'll turn her on. Can someone who actually has experience and can help me post please?

As far experiences goes ever guy has had different experiences. So its not like we can tell you exactly what to expect. What I can tell you is after you had sex you will more than see you made a big deal over nothing. I am not saying sex isn't nothing but it isn't as big of a deal as you are making it out to be.

You shouldn't think too much about your first time and I don't think that stop watching porn will change anything about you being nervous. You should just jump right into it and don't expect too much. I had my first time when I was 18 and it sucked big time. I didn't really know what to do and was really nervous. The whole thing took something like 5 minutes and that was it. But after that it just kept getting better and better. So fuck losing virginity. It's not a big thing and you will be fine, if you just do it.

the first time is bullshit no matter what anybody tells you

yeahh you probably gonna have trouble, so for the sake of a little better fuckin

first make her wet by masturbating, then let her suck your dick hard then put on the condom, or even better let her do it, then let her sit in your dick so its easier to get it straight in

and also remember that ever the first time you gonna feel a little weird about this girl so you probably gonna tell her to get the fuck out of your life (atleast thats what i did haha)

so you gonna fuck up but dont stress about it because it doesnt matter as you probably gonna dump this girl pretty soon (also be selfish the first time and do how you really can enjoy it)

first time doesn't matter, don't think about it

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My first time was horrible. Still traumatised by it.
I felt so awkward and super insecure about my body.

I didnt know what to do and it hurt. Horrible experienceee
never spoke to the guy ever again because I was just so embarressed.


Learn from my mistake , relax and take it slow. Only do it when you feel like it and you seem like you want it.
so dont worry you will be fineeee

Good luck!

Simple. I wish I could have done better.

Tips and Tricks

Here are some tested and proven techniques to turn your first experience from bullshit to AWESOME.

• 1. Watch Black Hawk Dawn along with Mr. Bean episodes for 7 straight days. Black Hawk Dawn will boost your sex drive while Mr. Bean will make you relax. You'll have no hard on anxiety problems later on. Your dick will be hard most of the time.
  
  2. Fap and come 2 or 3 times one hour or two hours before the actual fuck close. This will prevent any premature ejaculation problems later.
  
  3. Play music in the background so you can measure the time for foreplay, clitoral orgasm, pubococcygeus muscle orgasm, and/or g-spot orgasm. You can also try to get the girl to have all 3 kinds of orgasm at the same time.

Scientific Fuck Routines - General Pointers

Your playist will be something like this:

Cheesy song 1 - 2:32
Cheesy song 2 - 2:33
Cheesy song 3 - 3:12
...
Cheesy song 10 - 4:06

The cheesy song selection will be your time frame to remove any last minute resistance through PUA routines and doing your foreplay. Right after the cheesy song selection, make a high energy song collection. It's something like this:

Like a G6 (Far East Movement) - 3:39
Push the Button (Sugababes) - 3:39
Nobody (Wonder Girls) - 3:40
Low (Flo Rida and T-Pain - 3:50
Smooth (Santana) - 5:19

And so on. You get the idea. Giving girls orgasms are about hitting the right places and doing the proper rhythms. Hint: You can't bang her fast while Low plays 3 times. You'll burn yourself out fast and she'll likely lose lubrication. The fast rhythmic thrusts should mellow down after the fast dance beat to something like Santana's Smooth.

You can't improve if you can't objectively measure your performance, eh? If you say you banged her for one hour, some twenty 3-minute songs should have played in the background while banging her (*wink*). Foreplay time not included, okay.

Make your first experience count.

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