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| Valor91 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 9:53 am | |
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Joined: Tue Sep 27, 2011 11:19 pm
Posts: 65 | | Can you use something a girl says to qualify for you?
For example: I use to work at the Zoo.
Me: wow you're amazing, I love someone who's good with animals.
Ex: I eat (certain type of food)
Me: wow you're amazing, I love eating (food)
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| pumpington | PostPosted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 10:04 am | |
Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:37 am
Posts: 3276 | | the difference is the frame,
approval seeking vs approval giving
what is going on in your head when you are saying what you are saying,
it is not the words, it is not what you say, it is how you say it
with your qualification, are you kissing her ass to try to get her to like you, or are you letting her know that you like her?
what is the frame around the interaction
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