| Routines are great way to start, but remember, there training wheels.
But here is the thing problem with routines, and this is why your running out of things to say. Your focusing too much on running routines, and what to say, your not listening to the girl your talking to.
As posted above me, drop routines soon as you can, and focus on what the girl is saying, and free associate of that. You will notice, the girl will do most the talking instead of you or at most, you guys are doing equal amount of talking.
Think about having conversation with a friend, your not running routines, your not thinking of what to say next. instead, things are just flowing naturally because your not too much in your head. This is where you wanna get to on a cold approach.
I remember when I started, I could not hold down a set for more then 5 minutes. Now, 2.5 years later, i am pulling girls back. So, your problem is not a overnight fix, it will take lots and lots of practice and going out.
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