I usually bring it up myself. Not cause Im trying to use it to arouse her or anything. I am just genuinely curious about an HBs history. (if she is very open to the topic, gaming her is hard to mess up) It also by default will create sexual tension.

On the other hand, girls bitch that guys only want one thing. It can come off as AFC to start talking about sex because she might think thats all you want out of her or even think about.

Ive had the most success at least talking about it without too many details. I think the majority of women I meet would be afraid to know my real notch #s and history.

I never bring it up until at least an hour or so into the "getting to know" you part of a date. That way I can establlish who I am, what I want, and what to expect around me before bringing up a harder hitting topic. What do you guys think? Make sure its one of a series of good topics or save the pillow talk until youve at least been to made out a few times?

wtf? Never ever talk about sexual history. And never bring up how man girls you have slept with. Too high, your a player which looks bad, too low and your a looser. There is no perfect number here. If she ask, just say something stupid or end it at by saying "numbers is never a good discussion"

of course you can ask stuff like where is the craziest place she had sex at, etc...

And for myself, I take things sexual within 10 minutes of meeting a girl that I am sarging.

What I meant when I said history, was not how many people she slept with. I should have used the word preferences. I dont ask or tell #s. We all have a sexual personality on top of our regular one. If I can find out hers without losing comfort or attraction, it will make closing with her a lot easier and natural to happen. Some gals are over the top, some are submissive, some are just shy etc. I just want to identify her sexual characteristics so I can game accordingly.

Its good to talk about sex.. you need to get on a sexual wavelength with her and not end up in the friend zone. There are ways to do it and things to think about but I cant think exactly how at the moment.

If a girl asked you how many girls you have slept with.. take a sip of your drink, look at her with straight in the eye.. little pause.. and then say 'a gentleman never tells'.. take another sip and change that part of the conversation.

You need to escalate sexually and keep the conversation interesting. A conversation about sex always keeps girls interested. People love sex.

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Lame.

If she asks say "you mean this week alone?" and begin counting with your fingers

last couple weekends I have talked about sex on the first date and ended up closing them both. Just don't talk about numbers like these guys say...I got asked that question and the best answer is something funny

Its not lame to keep a girl guessing. Yes, your reply would work aswell and a cheeky response is fine, but there is more than one way to skin a cat.

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Agreed. Either response demonstrates high value and when done in a playful manner indicates that you are very comfortable with your self, which is a sign of confidence, yet another embedded DHV.

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