| hey man, try this out, I assume you see her in person and this should be done in person,
first ask her what kind of movies she likes, try to place a general genre that is her favorite, then think of a movie from that genre and ask her if she has seen it, keep listing movies until you find one that she has not seen
tell her you would love to watch that movie with her, if she responds in anyway besides FUCK NO, or something along those lines, take that as your que to set a date, be specific with the day, and invite her to your house to watch the movie (specifically one she would enjoy), if she has objections, try to counter them and remove them from the equation so she has no excuses
once she is at your house, get her to come closer to you, cuddle up to her/put your arm around her (what ever is more convienient) after things get cozy and you two are comfortable cuddling up together, just make some eye contact and go for a kiss in what ever way is normal for you (if you are totally new to kissing and this is not normal for you at all, just say would you like to kiss me?)
the compliance you are looking from her comes in order
-talking to you
-isolation
-closing the distance
-touching
-kissing
if you can not get to kissing, past knowing her for a good hour of chilling and you have tried multiple times and made some good solid attempts at getting a kiss without being shaken by any tests or resistance, then it is safe to say that you should move on to a different girl and repeat the process before trying with this one again, keep going to a new girl and giving that girl some time off before trying to crack her again, if she comes up with excuses to not come hang out and watch a movie with you, invite her to do something less of sexual threat to her, like going to grab a coffee, or going go karting, or going shopping (something she would enjoy where there is no bed around to get fucked on), then from that event, try to get her back to your place in person and from that point on if she sees she ended up at your place and you didn't jump her then she will feel more safe to return, if you have time to hang out at your place, throw a movie in and do what was listed above, if she makes excuses to not meet up and not hang out a good 3x in a row, move on to a different girl and stop contacting that one as there is a really good chance she is not interested in you romantically at all at the current time
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