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I learnt a painfull lesson today. I have new term for the solution. ALPHA HAPPY. I feel anything else just invites negativity.
I should go back to my roots SALES. And no I did not work in it, but did study it heavily. Need to go back to agressive compassion.
Those familiar with NLP will know what I'm talking about. Guess this innergame thing is making me think!
Hey Jackal, its been awhile. I hope all is well. I just had to comment about "sales" This is the essence of pick up. Sales is essentially selling yourself. Once a person believes in you they will believe in the product you are presenting. If you believe in your product 100% all you have to do is sell yourself. Pick up is exactly the same principle. A confident sales man, makes sales. A confident PUA gets laid.
Follow your sales knowledge my friend. It will surely work.
By the way, you are doing a great job, stop being so hard on yourself. Just do me a favor and start promoting more sexuality to your crew and yourself.
If you are constantly sexual, even in a masked way. When women do like you, sex will be implied. They will validate their like for you with sexuality in return.
My method a lot of times, especially day game, is being extremely friendly and funny, yet always showing my sexuality no matter what. It doesn't have to be overly aggressive, in fact it can be extremely subtle. But always have it. ALWAYS.
Once a woman decides you are cool, or sweet or nice or funny. It will also be associated with your sexuality and accepted as a part of you.
Thanks.
The best sales film I have watched is the Legend of Elmer Gentry with Burt Lancaster. Its about using wit and charm to win an argument.
The aforementined incident was NONPUA related. A person of importance was speaking to me in a harsh tonality I mirrored that tonality. This was a mistake, I should have been smiling and been pleasant. This is hard to do. Usually if I was prepared I would do roleplay and practice keeping cool under pressure.
The solution is to go back to roleplay exercises I do with my guys which I have not done in a few months. I try to do this roleplay exercises in public in a large crowd to increase pressure. Unfortunately I deleted the ones from u tube, which was getting nagative attention and some positive I may add.
In terms os sexuality, it is always there, but not constant as it is reliant on being in state. Which is why I am exploring innergame. To be a guy who is reasonanly happy in his own company, and is not constanly looking for external validation for happinesss. I guess I do not want to be a guy bored out of his mind on his own, walking or sitting in a venue, but the guy with the biggest smile in the west. These are only words now, I wish to make them true.
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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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