So I went for night game for the first time with wings.Night started off a bit jittery .I was having some approach anxiety in the beginning .Lot of shit started to come up in my mind as to why I should not approach ( but in my defense the club was loud and over-crowded being the V-day) .So eventually I go outside where it's not too loud and start the night by opening some random set of dudes.It gave me some confidence.I had a nice little chat.Then I started opening sets with women

1) We opened a mixed set first .Used the opinion opener - My friend's gf just broke up with him on V-day .Do you think it's justified? Got them talking for a bit .I turn to the girl in the group ask her would you ever do that ? She's like no ...I 've been dating him for like 3 years( points to other guy in the group) .I was like nothing much can happen here .I talked for a bit and ejected.

2) Then opened 2 girls.One was down on her knees in front of the other.I go and open saying 'Did you just propose to her'? She smiles and then goes like 'This is an intimate discussion ..blah blah ..we need 5 minutes' ..we ejected

3) This is the set of 3 girls.I open again with an opinion opener .Girls say you should ask her ( point to a girl) she is in a relationship Blah blah.The one who said that was quite outgoing saying that 'shit happens' and you should get laid tonight ..lol...I was winging ...then some shitty music starts to play and they're like we are going to dance on that ..she ( the outgoing chic ) says to my friend dont worry it happens and then gives him a peck on the cheek ( lucky %^&%^ ) ..and then I go like what about me ( in a funny way ) ..she is like no and then they giggle and leave ...pwned

4) I go inside to get something ..I see 2 girls sitting .I walk upto them ..go direct ..you guys look cool had to come and say hi .(fumbled a bit)...they gave me the 'who the f*** are you look'..I kept my calm ..did a handshake , asked their names..then I go like what's a better club than this ..it's crowded ..talk a bit about clubs ..clearly didnt get any vibe ..eject.

5) Finally we sit next to 2 girls and over the shoulder I open - "Hey need your quick opinion ...blah blah same as above" ..then we talk for a bit she says she has been through similar stuff ..it's painful ..people drink ...blah blah..then I ask how do you guys know each other ..says one line answer ..then slowly convo dies out ..she turns her back to her friend ..after 30 seconds I turn and say thanks and we both eject.

Guys I really need you to critique the night . How do you think I performed.More importantly what flaws can you point out? I am making a serious effort at this and whatever your thoughts are would really help me out so please let me know whatever you feel.

So many views and no replies? Please guys help me with this.

For starters, the best thing you could do is make your field reports legible. Proper punctuation and spelling really help when reading long posts.

Then, you didn't use any DHV's that I picked up. Unless you can show a woman that you're better than the average guy, she will lose interest.

Finally, set out a pattern, but adapt it to your style so it comes across as more natural. Choose a technique (cocky funny, mysterious ect) that matches your personality. HB's can smell a fake from a mile away.

And don't forget to have fun. If you're not having fun, neither are your targets.

Went out with my buddies again this night.Not too many openers this time .For once I feel comfortable opening sets outside the bars where there is less noise and confusion.My wing however says that since they are in transition it's not such a good idea.

Opened 2 sets overall.1st one was a 2 girl set. One of them was staring at me .Got the convo going a bit .But ejected too soon I guess.Problems - Too loud girls +probably too drunk also to listen .Loose interest after talking a bit and go to the dance floor.

Went to another bar opened the chic with the opinion opener.She was alone .For 2 sets I have the next routine as how do you guys know each other .In this case didn't knew what to say .So had to eject.Problem :- Didn't know how to transition from this opener when I open a single girl.Suggestions welcome.

Overall issues:-Still quite a bit of AA and a feeling of what will people around think?

Went out again this week.Decided to warm up from the word go and it helped.Asked a chic about the best beer in the pub .Had like a 1 min convo with her.Felt better after that.Then opened my first major set after that .Asked them about the is kissing cheating opener ...went on nice ..for the first time reached till the friendship test and asked them a question or two ..but then they were like too drunk ...couldnt go forward.....so I exit ..had a lot of kino going on while asking questions....this approach gave me more confidence as I approached another set again with the same opener ..one of the problems I have faced is girls say no (almost 100% of the time) and then if i ask girl kissing girl it's still no ..which kinda makes it hard to proceed ...any how I talk to her for a minute ..like where's she's from ..1 min discussion ..then she turns to get a drink ..her friend is close by ...1 min later I open her with 'U must be from XYZ place too' ..and talk to her for 1 min ...she looked responsive but convo died...I got to be louder in clubs...this was pretty nice for the club coz it's usually very loud and I am not comfy with that....went to the street while bar hopping ..no sets ...and then to another club ..there was these 2 girls sitting on the couch ..I was so feeling to open them but damn couldnt ..just started to think too much (Problem) ...but I was happy with performance in the first club ...since there were not many sets in here ..went back to the 1st one ..there was an opportunity there with opening a girl over the shoulder but again got anxious and missed it .Overall I think AA is slightly better .I should warm up it helps ..but AA definitely needs improvement ..I got to think less while approaching !

Went out again this night ...but it was very very bad ...for some reason I was demotivated before even going out ..I could feel the fear ..then circumstances were such that I might not go out so i was feeling a bit relax( but hating myself for being a pussy) ..and then I finally happen to go out (though not for long) ...i was barely in field for like 45 mins or so ( and majority of that time was hopping bars) ..and i didnt even make any approach today inside the club ...I just asked 2 people outside for directions to some place(1 guy and 1 mixed set) ....I just for some reason didnt feel like anything working that night ...my confidence shattered and is in a pretty bad state too right now ....some reasons 1) demotivated from before 2)not having my usual wings 3) spending very less time ..overall a bad bad night no approach plus money spent:(

Just to update I am still in the game and I still make an effort to go out .I feel nice some days and not so nice but I don want to give up!