Title may be a little bit drastic,

Reality is not.


But still, there's something that's been bothering me lately, and I don't know how to call it.

So yeah, for those who don't know me. I'm a normal guy with some basic knowledge of the game. I can say I have experience doing this shit and I never have any problem flirting with girls.

I opened numerous of girls, number-closed numerous of girls, kissed numerous of girls, banged numerous of girls... etc, you get my point.

Anyways, I am trying to say that I've always had more than one girls who I am seeing but I just never get in a relationship with them. It's not that I CAN'T. In fact, girls often end up asking me to be exclusive with them, but I just can't see myself with them.

Is it the incapacity of settling down since I've been have great results lately?

Or it is just the fact that I don't like the girl enough?



If it would be option 2, which I think it is. Does that simply mean I need to find a girl amazingly gorgeous with which I have great connection?

Holy cow, that girl must be really special! One girl within thousands! She must be really hard to find!



But here's my actual sticking points (Because I don't really mind being single for the moment Still young!):

Every once in a while, I see ONE girl. And by "once in a while", I mean... It happened 2 times during the past 2 years.

A girl, whom I could see anywhere, and I would totally freeze.

It's pretty fucked up since it's only happened with 2 girls over the past 2 years. But I would just stop thinking, and there's no way in hell I could ever approach this girl.

Last time, It happened a month ago, I was in class when this gorgeous girl walked in class late. The teacher was talking, but I couldn't hear him anymore, I even dropped my pen on the floor (By accident, of course) when she walked by me.

So it got me thinking, could those "special girls" actually be the ones I could see myself in a relationship with?

That's pretty fucked up situation, indeed. I never spoke to these girls and I feel like I turn like a total AFC, virgin, when it comes to seducing, or even talking to these girls. Which makes no sence since I've been flirting with hundreds of girls!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

I can relate.

Even thou I dont wanna be drastic, Imma land it on ya with no second thougths:
whats the point on bragging about your skills/ experiece if, at the end of the day, you tell us that the REAL girls you enjoy fully cant be approached by your guts?

My point here is that, it doesnt matter how many girls you`ve layed yesterday, wich ones are you banging in the present, or the ones you can have in the future; Im thinking that if you CANT be with the girl you trully want, well, you wont know the true hapiness.

I think this becouse Im living it at this moment, I do have some lays, I do have some kisses; but not from the girls I really like.

At the end of the day, what I have done does really count?

It is an interaction with the fact that you care about the situation or not. If something doesn't mather alot everybody can take risks ect.. without stressing about it. Try opening to that guy, even if you do it the wrong way you actually made contact. Dreaming is nice but trying to get the one you actually want (and failing/succeeding) is eventually alot nicer. Just convince yourself they would actually benefit from being with an amazing guy like yourself. (I hope this is what you think of yourself, otherwise change your life.)

Right.

On.

The.

Fucking.

Spot.



You're totally right. However, I've been with really gorgeous girls but I am someone really hard to satisfy. I guess it sucks but I won't be all sad about my situation because it could be WAY worse.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist