I like this chick...She's 10 years younger than me (32-22), but we're feeling each other, lots of $hit in common, etc. We've had sex twice and enjoy being around each other...So I'm not sure how to play the Valentines Day $hit...

Any advice on how I should approach it, because I feel like it's probably too early even after 2 dates and 2 bangs to be Valentining her out...Just not sure how to play it...Think the chick is falling for me, but this might put my intentions too far out there (Like to keep a little doubt in her mind)...

Opinions?

If you guys aren't dating and you've only gone out twice, I wouldn't even address it.

If you have a good thing going, don't mess it up by adhering to some stupid commercialized holiday.

Take her out for dinner on a Thursday or something instead. Shows that you're still interested in her, but doesn't go over the top with a valentines day proposal

if you like her, take her out don't be dumb and follow what the guy above suggested, these dudes get dumped and scratch their heads wondering wtf they did wrong and then come on here crying about it and get some bs about "owning the frame".

OK, now I'm confused...

I work as a magazine reviewer (amongst other things), and
after she left my house this morning I asked her to come with me to this jazz club I'm going to review this Thursday (Everything's comp, so two birds ya know?)... Anyways I didn't even think about V-Day until she passionately kiss me on the way out and I felt this couple-vibe for the first time...So I do agree with the commercialization angle, but girls lie their assess off acting like they don't care that much when she probably will, so I don't know...

It's always shocking when people blow off Valentine's Day as a "Hallmark Holiday" and refuse to acknowledge the women in their lives because of it. Guess what? It's not about you, it's about the girl. It is every woman's dream to have an amazing Valentine's Day. They wait for it for weeks in advance. If there's one time where it's appropriate to put a woman on a pedestal, it's Valentine's Day. Fuck what everyone tells you about acting like a beta male and that she won't respect you - those people are socially retarded and will never have a stable relationship until they grow up.

So to directly answer your question, hell yes, take her out if you like her and show her a good time. OP, you've already expressed the fact that you know what to do, and that's refreshing to hear. Go for it.

Edit: I do want to add that you need to be careful not to go too over the top. Since you haven't seen each other that much yet, focus less on a tangible gift and more on having a good time. Think of something low-cost yet creative and you'll win more points that way.

I agree with what he says. If you like her don't shy away from her. If you've fucked her don't be afraid of a little hyped up day. you got the ball rolling . Take her out on valentine but don't make a big deal out of it.

Thanx, anymore suggestions?

Thusfar you've guys' have given me alot to mull...I'm now leaning towards surprising her with a V-day date...

well I guess I should ask the question that we've all forgot to ask...

what are your intentions with this girl? The answer to that question should dictate your decision

The easy response to this would be that you shouldn't treat a girl like gold only one day of the year.

Wow her with your personality, charm and decency all the time. You don't need to conform to a stupid valentines day idealogy. The problem is that most "men" are shit and can only be real men on february 14th.

If you treat her the way she deserves to be treated, and she still expects an extravogent (or any) Valentines day, then she doesn't deserve you

Why Not?

I'm guilty of not doing anything on the V Day thinking its too early or may be conveying too much. But after reading a few posts on V Day and experiences others have had, I completely plan on doing something w/ the day I'm presently dating, its been just 3 weeks with her but cant think of why I wudnt keep something casual but nice on the V day.

So yes, why not, go ahead.

At first it was "Man look at the girl in those booty shorts...I have got to get with that..." Now it's like "Damn we have alot in common, and she's cute, and she sexes me, and slightly maybe worships me (Think the age difference gets me that)..." So I think I can get away with not V-Daying her, but I'd be effin lying if didn't say I've started to really feel her...I guess my only thing is I didn't want this date to be "A line in the sand" sort of thing where after that date we're officially a couple or whatever, I like where it is right now without the labels...

But again I wouldn't have broached the topic if I wasn't still on the fence despite that...