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Some of you are talking wrong, one gave marlon brando - this stuff is for dominance against males, better suited for prison and not for looking at women.
Another person said "do not smile as it is creepy" - wtf are you talking about - smiling is not creepy, staring for long period of time without smiling is definitely creepier. You do not want to scare them.
My points was to prove the different types of eye contact

This is the best video about eye contact that I've seen. Period.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0RVo-sY ... jdWDRfxft5

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thanks guys for the help i forced myself to do it all day. so ill get there
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Hey, Give this a try..

If a person is right handed, put all your focus on there left eye, if they're left handed put all focus on they're right eye..

This is there essence eye and while focusing on that one they become calm and let they're defenses down. They also feel a trust, bond and connection with you instantly.

The opposite eye is they're personality eye and you focus on this when responding to "shit test, bad behavior, etc" Looking into this eye makes them uncomfortable and uneasy. Therefore it reduces the chances of them shit testing you because they don't want to feel that again. This goes for both guys and girls.

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i find it easier to stare at one eye, it keeps you focused and prevents your eyes from trying to wonder
You do realize if the person is looking directly at you they can tell both of your eyes are fixated on the one. It's creepy, actually.
no they cant. we arnt talking about standing 4 inches from someones face.
in order to focus on something, both eyes key into the same subject. for someone to notice that your doing so would require that theyd be doing the same thing.
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Hey, Give this a try..

If a person is right handed, put all your focus on there left eye, if they're left handed put all focus on they're right eye..

This is there essence eye and while focusing on that one they become calm and let they're defenses down. They also feel a trust, bond and connection with you instantly.

The opposite eye is they're personality eye and you focus on this when responding to "shit test, bad behavior, etc" Looking into this eye makes them uncomfortable and uneasy. Therefore it reduces the chances of them shit testing you because they don't want to feel that again. This goes for both guys and girls.
this is a good point, i can almost feel this as i read it
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Hey, Give this a try..

If a person is right handed, put all your focus on there left eye, if they're left handed put all focus on they're right eye..

This is there essence eye and while focusing on that one they become calm and let they're defenses down. They also feel a trust, bond and connection with you instantly.

The opposite eye is they're personality eye and you focus on this when responding to "shit test, bad behavior, etc" Looking into this eye makes them uncomfortable and uneasy. Therefore it reduces the chances of them shit testing you because they don't want to feel that again. This goes for both guys and girls.
sounds a little like an NLP technique i like it
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I feel like i should improve on looking people in the eyes, especially when im gaming.
What are some tips or links to articles?
Hey!
You have to be aware of how incredibly important eye contact is, the thing is that it's not only eye contact it's about body language as well. If you have a good eye contact but a "bad" body language it's going to look strange.

Here you have a perfect example of good eye contact and body language
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zg3wDlS6 ... bxgZ5hWo_W

This is the bext example of eye contact that I've seen. Michael Caine
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_0RVo-sY ... jdWDRfxft5
Hahaha the last example was epic. It is almost impossible NOT to blink! How can you train yourself to not blink?

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The reason you blink is to oil, lube and filter the eyes. Basically to prevent your eyes from drying out. I've tried it before; if you use eye drops, you will blink less frequently for a while, and also increase the time you can keep from blinking. Anyone who can also test this?
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You don't have to do the same!!! That video is to prove how important eye contact can be

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