Hi Guys.

So I do know what im doing most of the time, but, lets be hones we all have moments where we just don't know what else to do and for me this is that moment.

I will make it short and sweet. I know this HB10 from many years ago, we have only ran into eachother once by accident and then added on facebook (this encounter was literally 2 seconds as we were both with our then bf/gf)

Chatted her up on facebook few times then got the number and text game pursued (everything went well). She agreed to go out , but , then when I called her to confirm she didnt pick up and well, i didnt persist and let it go (Frooze it out). Few months later texting resumes and she invites me twice to meet her at a club shes at (both times i say no, because im not going to run to her obviously).

Texting continues following weeks off an on, and I make silly suggestions. (ie i want to go watch planes land, or my ex invited me to her engagement party) and she always says "take me" or "sounds hot i wanna go" or comments like "we are meant to be" , but never once have I accepted it (guess im bitter from her rejecting me and I assume shes playing me again).

Question is how do I proceed now? sometimes her text are really short and VERY CLOSED, other times they are inquisitive. I think shes honestly too hot to care, but, i am not gonna go give up quit yet.

Thanks again for any help

Fritz.

Go see her in real life. I think you can manage to make that happen.

Thats the thing. I am not sure how to approach seeing each other in person. Because the last time i tried , she backed out of it real hard, and this time i want to avoid that outcome. Just dont know how.

Dude, a girl invites you to a club or party you say 'maybe' and then you go.

Learnt this lesson the hard way years ago because I got caught up in silly mind games like you clearly have. Fuck that mentality right off. It won't get you anywhere.

A beautiful woman only gives you so many 'windows of opportunity' before she moves on.

She invites you out, you go. Otherwise she'll call some other guy. End of story.

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Thanks for the advice. I just didnt want to seem like a bitch. She shuts me down then i suddenly run to her when she calls, thought maybe thast a dlv.

Regardless, what do i do now??

Yeah that's true with calling but it's different when she actually invites you out somewhere. You can only go so far over the telephone eventually you need to face them in real life and when you get an opportunity to do that, if you're into the girl you don't pass it up.

Think about it this way, she's going to be drunk, maybe horny and out at a bar full of guys, someone is going to hook up with her. Maybe if you go then that will be you BUT if you don't go then that will definately not be you.

First of all, stop texting her, call her, you will build more of a connection that way, then next time you do ask her out, tell her you will pick her up from her house. She can hardly bail on you if you are picking her up from her house and by doing that you're essentially her chaperone for the night, it's unlikely she will ditch you while you're out unless you're being a total pussy and let another guy pick her up in front of you.

I don't know your exact situation but it sounds like you just need to take action and take the lead here, instead of asking her to come out try telling her to come out.

For example.
"I'm taking you out this friday night, dress nice"
"Where are we going?"
"It's a surprise"

Make sure she gets that you're the man, don't wait for her to come to her senses because you will be waiting a long time. Beautiful women need to led by strong men.

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