I need help changing myself.

I act so stupid around people, I make stupid jokes all the time and laugh at almost anything. I can be consider a clown and i think people think I am one too.

I want people to respect me but I also want to make people laugh. I am 22 and i still act immaturely like a child. I look around me and see my friends acting all grown up but i just don't know how. I try to control not talking and making jokes but its too hard to stop. I guess i just want acceptance but i realize i have to change soon because i am graduating soon.

Anyone got any ideas. Any advice is welcome thanks guys.

Hey!
You are what you want to be . All those things you said are in your hands if you don't want to be immature or a "clown" then don't be what's stopping you from doing it? Don't look for excuses if you want something go get it.
I think you are the "clown" type to look for validation, you don't need that. You have to work on your self confidence and once you do that can build the new you. Do you know what I mean?


Check this 2 inspirational videos. I watch them every day and they helped me out a lot. Stop looking for excuses and start thinking what you can do.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuFcJfO ... XvDO5SHQKM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0HsXw4 ... jdWDRfxft5


How great can you be? Watch the videos and you will know what I'm talking about

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12

How can i be more mature and change myself for the better? I want to be a man that people respect and go to for advce but how do i start doing that?

That's a really hard question to answer, I'd need to know more about you, about your enviroment about how people see you... etc

I work as a dating coach which means I do this for living. I'm gonna post a thread offering 30 minutes SPAM sessions. Send me a PM with your SPAM and I can help you out. Keep in mind that I live in Barcelona so check the time difference.

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Winners have simply formed the habit of doing things losers do not like to do 18/03/12