What does one do when they begin developing oneitis? Especially with a girl who is probably just stringing him along or planning to friendzone him?

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?

invite her out to be alone, try to have sex with her, if it doesn't work stop contacting her, if she contacts you every day without you contacting her, continue trying to do the above, but don't put any effort into it and put all your effort into new girls also if she is really flake mode (3+ flakes in a row) then it might be a good idea to just delete any way you have on contacting her, and communicate strictly on a she calls you basis until she wants to hang out (if ever), make sure to re-schedual on your time, unless the time she suggests works fine for you, but seriously don't change anything about your day, if she wants to hang out at 2pm on tuesday but you always go to the gym at 2, just say, can't hang out at 2pm, but we could chill at 4pm, don't change anything for her, just live your life and add her to it if she is willing

One watches this video to gain perspective and reframe the situation:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iT6QxRkjCAQ

^ damn thats a good video. im getting oneitis, "finally starting to feel those feelings once again" and i do "wanna hold onto em"! i "want this [bloody] relationship to work". "the feelings are intensified" and what not, ZZzz. I need to go out sarging this weekend for sure. Being under 21 im not sure where yet, maybe ill just go to the college library. As a matter of fact im going tonight. Peace out ya'll

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?

does anyone have any solutions that actually involve getting the girl? like making her your only one? lol...

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?

getting other girls is the solution to getting that one girl and making her the only one

No, I just no oneitis is a terrible terrible disease.