about two months ago i was dating two girls, since then i have turned one of those girls into my girlfriend.
i told the second girl that i had been hanging out with another girl who i thought was just a friend and didnt expect things to go in that direction but they sort of just did... she was very cool about it and we even exchanged a few txts the following week.
anyway we havent really spoken since then. she went overseas for a holiday for a few weeks and got back yesterday.

now things with the girlfriend are shit. she is bad in bed. she is self concious. she is boring and we just dont really vibe, i want to break up with her and start talking to the other girl again.
my general plan is to go into her store as if it were a spontanious and arrange a date. i will explain that things with the gf are wierd as we were more like friends and it was just kinda wierd when we got intimate and we would be better as friends.

i dont really want any moral opinions on this but feel free to leave them if you want. what i am asking for is wether you think this a good way to go about it? how would you go about it? how much should i contact her etc etc?

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

I wouldn't rush to date this girl right away, at least build attraction and rapport back with this girl. You haven't seen her in a while, or talked so give it some time.

A simple text will do asking her about overseas and what happen over there will do fine. Mix cocky and funny with her. Don't be boring and it's not always what you say it's what your going to say next to her.

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Just Like Chess I know the Rules-- And I bet I Checkmate her in like 4 moves--Trey Songz
Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

this is what i need to hear... yea i havent spoken to her in a while so im thinking an out of the blue txt may seem strange?
i do need to rebuild rapport though definately. i am pretty good friends with alot of her friends so was thinking of trying to get an in that way.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

why are you jumping into girlfriend mode so fast man?, why don't you just break up with the girl friend, start doing one approach a day (how bad is it, you have 100% success so far and see how stupid easy it is), hit up that chick at the store, and start hitting up random hotties, get multiple numbers, go on multiple dates, and once you have some choices, choose the girl you like the most to be your girlfriend, and forget this rapport/attraction shit, just go see her, talk to her, be real, tell her what you want, get the number, and get out, you already know what you're doing. and realize you don't have to be a girls ''boyfriend'' to sleep with her and it gives you more freedom to blow girls off who are wasting time or suck in bed or suck to be around and you never have to ''break up'' with them, just stop calling them

Haha I knew you would get me for this one pumpington. Long story short I am a monogamous creature by nature, I still wanna Persue this though

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms