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best response I could think of is: "Actually it's a bad idea.. We'd argue about our 3rd kid's name and end up getting divorced anyway" and maybe if she goes along with this turn it into an ex-husband/ex-wife RP.
or maybe something along the lines: "Wait, so you want us to not get married and keep our relationship from the world? I would feel just like a piece of meat then.."
nm, found something good enuf to respond
Well the whole foundation of this is a big game. You play like your looking long term. You act as if you would want another person from time to time. Her reaction; it was surprise combined with something like, Whatt!
It seems like your friends. Have you made out yet? What are you really thinking man, deep down inside of yourself? Are you looking to lay her? Or are you thinking you want her as a GF. Why not switch from the canned stuff to direct. In other words, "Tell her how you really feel."
The sticking point that I will guess at based on the info you gave me is that, "Maybe she is hotter then what your used to?"
Alright work this canned shit in before you go serious talk with her. "You seem like a nice girl who I would love to take out on a nice date and maybe a movie, even if I didn't want to fuck you!" Look in her eyes when u say it. Control your breathing and do it smooth.
It sub-communicates alot. For example, you let her know you want to F close her. You let her know you think she is good enough for you and all the other crap women focus on....
I do not know the flavor of your relationship. Any rate a transition to direct is in order for you to F close her. You must be direct in some form, even if you did not like my line. You must let her know your DTF.
Remember that movie "a night at the Roxberry." Those dudes were always spitting lines to chicks trying to F close. They were totally not getting laid that way. I feel like the lines do one thing in the whole community... The canned lines get men ready for direct approach. The direct approach is where it is at. You cut through the BS and get right to the real question. Do you want to fuck me???
Don't mis-read direct is not always that direct. But it is a couple lines or something that leads to that moment when you can say something from the heart.
"Hey I think your sexy and I sometimes find it hard to control myself, just being your friend." Lets step it up, K close...
"Hey, I would love to help you cook, but what about what I want.. her, "whats that." U,, go in close, k close.
this is all off the top of my head. Do not over focus on the lines bro. They are fun, but its all in a moment. Sure focus on how to handle the situation, depending on how the answer you.. But I would get out of the habit of thinking that there is one right answer to everything. She will sense that and label you as a type. Then the game is hers bra...
Sorry if that did not answer the question in any form you may have wanted. If all this is stuff you already know just let it go... I hope I gave you some ideas tho badboy.
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