Ok so I have abit of problem. I want to pick up a girl I know, who I shouldn’t really even try to pick up. So my first question is….is there a way to pick up a girl 100% covertly? Meaning she would have no idea im actually trying to pick her up and she would need to be the one that makes a move on me. I don’t want the drama that would follow of a failed pick up.

Background - ok so I’ve known this girl for years and Ive always kind of had a thing for her but it’s only recently dawned on me that I wouldn’t mind starting something. The problem is I have a g/f , she has a b/f and we are all ‘friends’. The two girls are best friends. I don’t want to date her, I just want to have some fun.

My thinking was to build so much attraction and get her alone, then hopefully she will wouldn’t be able to resist and either give me a clear indication to make a move or make a move herself?

The target - 24 year old, HB7, she is a very socialable and sometimes flirty but has only slept with one guy (the guy she is with). She isn’t a very sexual person, which is another big barrier in my mind. they barely sleep together and she has joked that she has fallen asleep during sex.(I think it was a joke)
She gives me plenty of IOI’s - laughing at my stupid jokes, touching and lots of eye contact. (plus Im pretty sure she had a crush on me when we were younger). The IOI’s have increased since I’ve started giving her embedded commands while talking to her, emails etc

Her boyfriend is an ok average kind of guy, maybe alittle overweight. Whereas Im an athletic, good looking guy .


OH AND ONE MORE THING - as I researched covert seduction I started reading The Oct Man and while learning it in my mind I imagined performing the last part of the sequence with her. I went through the whole thing and then afterwards I became slightly obsessed about picking her up. This lasted for about a week. Does this sound weird to anybody? I decided against using that because it didnt seem healthly.

Anyway...any ideas,advice, opinions?

Thanks in advance.

P.s this isn’t a oneitis, so please don’t tell me to go fuck other women because im doing that anyway lol. And sorry the post was so long, as you can see this is abit more complicated then the normal pick up.
We have made plans to hang out in afew weeks, just us two. If anybody is interested, ill post my plan so far and maybe you guys can give your opinions?

Well like I DID say I decided against the OMS. I dont see a problem with looking into something...

And I dont need your moral guidance....ever heard of boyfriend destroyers? Or just everyday bored housewives,husbands, boyfriends,girlfriends cheating? Its a fact of life, if you dont agree...thats super!

But thanks for all the useful advice

You'll have to do some stealth game moves preferably on a party occasion. But keep the fact you will inevitably lose both girls in the back of your mind. When the girl you want to game comes to understanding - whether that's before or after there has actually been action - she will tell her best friend (your girl) and she will probably leave you.
I wouldn't do it if I were you but it's your life.

Without moralizing, let me ask you this. Have you thought about the consequences if you actually pull this off? The drama, the hate, the crying, the shit you'll get from your girlfriend? You'll be in for hell! These things tend to come out sooner or later, no matter how discrete you are.

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Since when has pick up been about back stabbing? It's your friend FFS... Besides, you will be caught later anyway. When you get caught, your reputation around your friends will decrease a lot.. You know people talk and especially girls.. So expect all the girls gossiping and ruining your reputation later on

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Back off. There's so many things wrong with that situation that I can't even begin to help you out with it. If you're unsatisfied with your girlfriend, dump her and find someone else. End of story.

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Not here to judge you. Seen this many times and one way or the other it ends up bad. You two will either hit it off and then have to tell your significant others that your leaving them for each other or she'll feel bad and tell her bf and/or your gf. But regardless...

If she's willing to make plans just hanging out with you then she has some interest in you or bored of her bf. Both will work. You have to approach it verbally as just a friendship hang out. When you two are alone just start your approach as you would with any other girl. Gentle playful touching, invade her personal space, make her laugh and try to stay off the subject of your gf and her bf. Watch that video that admin emailed the link to about silent seduction or what not. If things progress and you two end up kissing or more I'd pull away afterward and say with a smile on my face, "I thought we were just friends". See her reaction and go from there. She freaks out.. then I'd call my GF and rat yourself out so she doesn't hear it from her first. But I wouldn't push that early on. Just keep hanging out with her by yourself and each time step up the intimacy. I'd take my time on this because you have a lot to lose if you do it wrong. If you are actually going to do this then don't make plans a few weeks in advance... Make them in a few days.

Thanks for the advice guys, I thought about it and im going to leave it. Ill hang out with her but Im not going to put it on her.

Thanks for your opinions