Short story of this is I was in a class with this HB8 and only talked to her the second week to last class b/c the class is so huge. But anyways, we flirted a good amount and basically left it at that. The class was over and I really wanted to contact her and try to setup a date. So I emailed her and she responded. I am not sure how to phrase the next email and actually do the "asking" of her to a date. I really appreciate any and all help from you guys!

ME:
Hi Kara,
I remember you being in my English class this past fall semester and was wondering if you ever got your final paper back from the teacher. I’ve been trying to email her to pick it up, but she hasn’t been very responsive to me or my friends who have been emailing her as well. I'm trying to figure out what's going on and you were the person that caught my attention who seemed pretty on the ball on who else I could ask. Thanks, Mike


HER:
Hi Mike,
Hope you are well!

Good to hear from you. Unfortunately I never really asked to get my final paper back from her. I can recommend you to maybe leave her a written request in her mailbox at her her office? Hopefully she can respond there or get back at you. If its really urgent, I was looking at class schedule and she has a class on Saturdays at Roski Lecture Hall, that I am sure you can stop by and intercept her. I tried looking for other (non-Saturday) classes but didn't see any.

Good luck!

Best,

Kara



I was thinking of sending something casual like:

ok thanks, I will defintately try that, hey next time your on campus and have some free time lets grab some coffee, heres my number ########
Talk soon
Mike

please lemme know what you guys think

from her email she is showing no interest so I would not follow your plan.

In chickese "good luck" generally means "i'm done with you, thxbyebye"

I would email her again with something cocky/funny relating to some shared experience in class over something you flirted about before. If she is none or a neutral response dont bother to ask her out. I mean you could but things dont look promising.

Sorry detox, but i believe this is bullshit.

The email he got back was pretty positive. Hi Mike, hope you are well. And good to hear from you. If you dont care for a person, you dont write this. On the other side, lets keep our feet at the ground, it doesnt mean she is madly in love with you either.

But even more, why should we bother to analyse her email? The email interaction has nothing to do with feelings or seduction, it is about a paper. Although people with strong emotions will always find a subtle way to give note of how they feel about somebody else, what she wrote can be interpreted an many different ways, depending on your point of view. So, lets not do that.

So you had fun with this girl one time, you had a good feeling about it and you want it happen again in the future. Cool.

In my honest opinion, i wouldnt try to arrange that by email. Email is for things like paper questions and boring stuff. I would make sure i see her again on campus and then state my business face to face. If you had a good moment the last time, its bound to happen again. I would take advantage of the moment and then say: hey, you really seem like fun or whatever. Lets go for a drink/coffee/whatever thursday evening. She might ask: why? On which you respond: well, because i think you are fun and i want to get to know you better. You will instantly know if you can game on or should leave it.

If you dont have the patience for this (i cannot stress the importance of patience enough, but ok) and you have to go for a mail, i should write something more in line of:

Hey! Thanks, that is a good idea.
Btw, i think you seems like a fun person to be with. Next time you are on campus, lets grab a coffee. I want to get to know you better. When is the next time you are on campus?
grtz, Mike.

I believe it is better you be more straightforward. State what you think and state what you want. I wouldnt just throw my cellphone number at her, unless you prefer a phonecall over email. But dont get yourself in endless text conversations, and try some.... text game (really, who ever invented this...). Be firm and short, state what you want instead of trying to be the point of her attention.

Still, i am more favorite of having patience and tell her in her face what it is that i want.

cheers and good luck!

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you can analyze this all day, but really it is pointless to do so, the email really says nothing for or agaisnt you, I really have no idea where the hell you are at with this girl, but you might as well just come out try to get her out, no point in saying random shit that has no relevance to you getting into her pants, you can even play it soft or w/e is your styl

how about

Hey Kara,
That email about the paper was not really what I wanted to e-mail you about, you totally got me crushing on you when we were in class and I just wanted to hit you up with my number (###-####), text or call me sometime to talk, we can go out and do something fun
(by your messages it seems this would suite your frame fine)

see ya,
stang1101

shes either interested or not don't sweat the minor details, most of the work has to be done after she accepts the invite, if she even accepts the invite, just make sure you are hitting up alot of girls at once instead of just 1 random girl you made small talk with in a class, just cause you think she is hot and never told her so, don't expect her to even respond and if she does good stuff, if not, cool, tell a whole bunch of other girls you are interested that you find them interesting in one way or another, start actually hitting on/up girls and trying to get them out, all this random, hey I just wanted to let you know some random thing that has no relevance to what I want will get you absolutely no where but into friend zone, act like a friend you get to be one

Thanks man. I have to agree with you that its stupid to sit there and try to analyze the email. I mean she could be interested or she could just being polite. Best thing is to cut to the chase and be more straightforward.

Any other tips would be great. Prob sending this tonight or tomorrow morning.

Need to get direct, too much ambiguity going on, no one knows what the fuck is really going on.

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