I don't intend to see you again. Let's go, I might grab a smoke. Isolate.

Is it so harsh that it kills the arousal? Make her feel like a slut for disqualifying her as a GF?

[quote="kneehowguys"]I don't intend to see you again. Let's go, I might grab a smoke. Isolate.

Is it so harsh that it kills the arousal? Make her feel like a slut for disqualifying her as a GF?[/quote

Or tell her thank you for doing me the favor by not seeing me anymore

Disqualifying yourself is mandatory if you want to keep it a honest game but never do it harsh. Try to avoid she feels like a slut because then she'll back off. I will always be nice and gentle. The disqualifier I used yesterday was the following: "I'm like this shelter for lonely women. I give them an understanding ear, some of my finest wit and in the end I fulfill their physical needs." The girl was all over me afterwards.

I would change I don't intend to see you again to I'd probably never see you again.

For me, this is all about congruence and having a strong frame. I don't disqualify myself cause that is something I need to do to get laid. I do it cause I don't want to lead her on.

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Why on Earth would you want to disqualify yourself as a boyfriend? Surely thats the last thing you'd want to do with a girl! Unless you mean ironically? :S

Disqualifying yourself as a BF is a good strategy but it depends on your personality, what you want from the girl and how you go about it. If you just want a hook up, then it doesn't really matter how you say it. Though as someone mentioned previously, if you are harsh about it you will probably not be as successful. If you are looking for more than a one night stand (or even if you are just looking for a one night stand) then personally I would rather disqualify myself in a playful and attractive manner like "We would never work out, you are too much like me. I don't want to date myself... blah blah blah" there are numerous ways to do it.

So it seems like most people recommend you slip in somewhere in the conversation that you are not looking for a girlfriend. What are topics you see that you could use to mention something that disqualifies you? As opposed to just blurting it out randomly?

In the worst you wanna take her home with you and you haven't mentioned yet you aren't looking for a GF. Do you still do it and how do you do it?

"I'd probably never see you again

Well what if we go to the same college ?... maybe I'll say it anyway fuckit.