So I’ve escalate this girl but I’m having a issue, it’s having sex with her. She is proving really hard to get.

First we have a secretive relationship nobody knows. We had a really nice friendship that escalate to something more. We casually get together. She really likes this all drama of secretive shit, she probably wets her pants.

She is going back to work one week so its my time windows.

Before we get together she told me she only have sex with boyfriends. I know its bullshit to impress, because sometimes I think she sees us together in the long run, so she doesn’t want to show she is a slut. And wants to win my affection in the meantime. But the other hand she working in another city SPAM (is temporary)

She knows my policy with women, because i told her alot of my adventures with girls. And im not looking for a relantioship

She is very jealousy when im talking to other girls. And for number of times tried to made me jealousy, but I completely ignore her futile attempts.

Her friends think im hot, and even one think is interest in me.

She is always fishing for compliments.

She told me she dreamed about us, having sex… I know is her way of saying she wants to have sex with me, without sounding like a slut.

When we are together, she is the one chasing me, being aggressive, while im pushing and pulling driving her crazy, I feel I have the control. Also can see she is very excited moving her hips and other things.

But every time I try … she literally she push me, or go in defensive mode. And cuts and stops. Don’t know what im doing wrong. It worked so many times.
Keep in mind I don’t want to tell her lies, that she hijacked my brain or that im falling in love, because we have been friends along time.

What im doing wrong here?

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Sounds like she doesn't want to get emotionally hurt. No sex is her last card and she's playing it. Sounds like she wants to have sex but you may need to show a little bit of commitment to get there.

If you told her about how you pick up girls and your not wanting a committed relationship then the alarm bells will be going off in her head. Hence the jealous attempts

She's trying to tie you down bro!

freeze her out

edit:

after really turning her on and sparking a huge emotional connection with her

then...disappear

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

The problem is the one week window.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

hey snake

to be honest, it sounds like this girl is being honest

she sounds like good relationship material

she may actually be enforcing her standards that she doesn't have sex unless in a committed relationship

because think about it

the attraction is there
the time has been there
the chances have been there

yet she still hasn't given it up

is she going away for a long time? permanently? or is she coming back?

are you looking for a lay from this chick? or a relationship?

is this the same girl you were gaming a while back?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

First off ty for the replies mack.

Yes its the same girl she came back on christmas holidays. No I think her job end on summer , and she doesnt she herself on that city for a long period of time

She will go back to the main land in one week for her job.

Im looking for a lay, she is hot,so its not easy stopping. and ive been very honest with her from the beginning. Im too young to settle and im still to damaged from my last relantioship.

The problem is that she knows , what my policy with women.

Ive think its impossible for a lay with this girl, without telling her something she wants to hear, but im not going to do that. Oh well.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!