PUA is all about having BALLS

DO YOU HAVE BALLS?

I GOT BIG BALLS

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the best puas have BIG, JUICY, BOUNCING BALLS that are getting sucked by HOT FUCKING BABES.

Be a man.

No excuses.

No complaints.

Stop being a pussy.

If you cant do this, you dont have balls.

Go sarge.

Be the rockstar that you always dreamt about it.

Make that dream a reality.

DO YOU HAVE THE BALLS TO DO IT?

- J Slay -

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Slayin ladies all around the world

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.
- Wayne Gretzky

Amen.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Although I agree with what you say, I have a comment.



How do you win a bodybuilding competition?

Easy, be the biggest fittest muscular guy in the world.

So no complaints, go out there and be the biggest fittest most muscular guy in the world.



See the problem? Its easy to tell people what they need to be but it is difficult to teach them how to achieve it.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Funny thing is you can still pick up girls without having balls, using different methods. But it's all a mask in the end, and if you want to truly reach your goals in pickup, you're going to have to eventually grow some.

Ezo - you must do "a -> b" in order for it makes logical sense

Here i am not telling people what they need to be because i am not teaching them how to achieve it.

I am telling them that in order to achieve it, they actually need BALLS.



inorder to get to a -> b in a body buidling competition you need to workout

the HOW is by various exercises, routines, diets, regimes, coaches, instructors, etc

Thus logically, to get from a -> b in PUa, you need balls

the HOW is by various techniques, diets, routines, gurus, theories, books, forums, etc

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Slayin ladies all around the world

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.
- Wayne Gretzky

Well that doesnt change anything really. I agree that you need balls in order to learn pickup, at least to learn it well but to just tell someone that they are lacking what they need in order to succeed is not helping. That just makes people give up.

I dont think anyone on the forum would reject the chance of getting bigger balls, far from it. They just dont know how to get them and that is where you can help. You claim to have BIG balls in your original post, care to share how you got them?

Not hating on your post here man, just telling you that you have more to offer.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I think the motivation from telling people they need to man up and grow some balls can be enough to give them some, and go out of their comfort zone. But yeah, knowing how would be great.

ok i admit, you guys are right.

i guess i did try to answer those questions in this post

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my inner game post

does that help you guys figure out how to get big balls?



keep your balls bouncing

j slay

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Slayin ladies all around the world

You miss 100% of the shots you never take.
- Wayne Gretzky

Pointless ineffective drivel that will have men some men who read this stuck and confused for years. Ezo highlighted one of the issues. I think this is best explained by a picture MUNROE put up in another post, "here's an owl, draw the fucking owl". It is easy to tell people what they "should do" another thing to understand how they will do it and how they want to do it. Perception is a huge thing, and I think this post sums up one of the largest problems with PUA right now. It lacks what intrinsically gets each different man excited or what motivates each different man to success. It gives broad, general, and useless advice (in some areas) that benefits no one.

You are what I call, the "basher" types. High of energy, high of life, self-made man type guy. And for other individuals who are like you, this message will ring volumes to them, but as a man who spent many years dwelling in misery and failure, I know those who are struggling right now will not receive this message well. It will not inspire them to pursue their dreams. Posts like this intended to motivate this types of individuals shouldn't even be created because it often does the reverse of what it is intended to do, which is create even more despair even though it's intention was to inspire.

Rather than give messages to guys like this, you should either neglect them or let them live in their sorrow. Or if you have the "compassion" which is a huge thing to guys in this sort of situation, then give them the inspiration to keep moving forward. It is when they are motivated, and have a large moral support system, or something extremely tragic happens, that men like this get out of their dry spell. It took my mother nearly going blind to motivate me to work hard. I remember it like it was yesterday.

Bodybuilding who what where

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Pain is Temporary, Pride is Forever

You typed that into the search bar of the forum didn't you.

P.S; Go and get someone else banned, OTIS :p

This thread is a hit and miss. For me, I read something like this earlier, and it was a hit. I thinked Warped Mindless just said to man up in a thread and open, I did, and got results. Not that hard.

For others, it may be difficult.

Good post nonetheless.

EDIT: Oh and there's thousands of threads for you readers whom of which this thread missed on.

It's easy to say "man up and open" harder to teach ppl how to actually do that. For me any thread that says "man up" with out probable explanation is a "miss". Everyone wants to "man up", but what several experienced guys or guys who have success seem to be forgetting is that things take time. Most of us were once those guys who were worrying about "the one" or posting how to "get a girl back". We forget that and shed that experience for more positive ones that make us happy, but at the same time we lose what connects us to those guys in trouble right now. We lose sight of how we escaped, and when we lose this, we begin to lose the only probable explanation for success.

We begin to talk as if we were always success, and people who speak like that piss me off because they "forget" and I don't like people who "forget" what it was like to be on the other side of the fence. Whether you "forget" what it is like not to have women, or "forget" what it was like to be poor, or any of those other things. Because forgetting implies that you forget everything you have learned. All the lessons you have struggled through, all the pain which molded you into the individual you are now. In effect, you can now only teach people who are similar to you, or people who already have marginal success, you forget those who were just like you prior to success. That is why about 90% of the posts by experienced users on this website fail to improve the lives of about 90% of the males on this website because they "forget".

One of my reaasons for objecting with this thread is that it is similar to another type of thread. Im not saying that this is the case with this post man.


This other type of posts basically states that you only need one specific characteristic in order to get girls and that if you dont have it you are never gonna be successful.
The imaginary poster then goes on to say that it is easy to get it and states that he possesses this specific characteristic.

If you read between the lines what he is saying is: Hey look how good I am, you just have to be me to be good. Now none of you are me so you are not as good as me, I am the best.

The fact that the imaginary man writing the post is not giving any advice on how to get there only shows in a discreet way that he is so good that it comes natural to him. Which means that he wasnt out to brag, he just didnt know that this characteristic doesnt come as easy to everyone, only, of course he is out to brag, he just tries to hide it. Since it normally is a characteristic that is difficult to develop he is again stating his superiority to the world.

This is as I said not directed at you specifically man, your post can just be misinterpreted as one.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn