i ran into a 9 at a dressing room. I went in said id like to try on x # of items. Thought to myself I think im going to ask for her opinion on the pants i was trying on... see if she would bite. Heres how it went:
(ME) "hey would you mind giving me your opinion on these pants?
(HER) "They look good!, you should buy them. =)
(ME) theyre not too baggy? What do you think of the color... too dark?
(HER) theyre great
(ME) I have to be somewhere would you midn if i wore the pants out of the store?
(HER) Sure
We were sort of making plays at each other indirectly and i can tell shes picking up on my "humor". I gave her back the things i didnt want and look at her and say
(ME) so you work here full time huh? shes like yep. she goes im working tomorow 9-5. i say ok great. and left
I didnt seize the moment however i walked away and went to checkout when i saw a coat i liked. I figured id go back and ask for her opinion again. I try on the coat, step out and say hey fashionista girl what dya think of this? too long? think i can rock it without looking like a midget? She found it funny and were chatting a bit back and forth about the pros and cons of the jacket. I say great thanks for th advice hun.
(ME) So whatre you doing tonight?
(HER) she smiles and says visiting my uncle.... im using the 70/30 rule at this point and i say "thats nice of you" and she rambles on about her uncle (broign the fuck outta me) she finsihes and I say alright well thanks for your help and bail like a bitch. on my way out i say "If i wakeup tomorow and dont like this thing im gonna kick you" you says dont kick me too hard now. =)) and i laugh and leave.

NOW I went back a week later and bought a dress shirt and totally bomb it. Shes ringing me up and shes totally trying to pick me up this time, instead of the other way around. Fuck yea! ANyways i totally froze up and i had all these great things i planned to say but failed to fucking say them. I was brainstorming about some things and thought id throw in a christmas PU routine goes like "Hey heave you heard what hapeened to santa? girl says "no... what!? He broke his leg and is holding open tryouts, im thinkin of headin down south to take the test but idk if ill make the weight requirement" (Im an athletic built guy) (laughter) =) Or I had this other routine i was gonna use goes like:
(ME)"How much do you love your job? I bet they LIKE REALLLLYYY appreciate you huh?? (Saracasm)
(HER) blah blah
(ME) Its ok i hate my job too
(HER) Oh yea what is it that you do?
(ME) Im an astronaut, yea i work for NASA! etc etc plenty to bullshit from this point, i could talk about how i was on the appllo missions or something stupid but funny ya know

Anyways my point here is i have plenty of "game" but Ive found that my apporach anziety is outrageous and once i talk to a chick i have everything to say i mean im a fuckin pro at all other parts of my game except approach. Sooo god dayum frustrating. Because I know i can mack it to any broad but i seem to have a difficult time breaking down that barrier. I dont wanna stalk this girl and scare her off, but i know shes totally into me, no doubt. I have style like real class and i dress outstanding not just some bullshit a&f shit but like suits and clacin klein sweater fleeces etc.
My big questions here are...
Do i still have a shot, even though ive had two seperate interactions with her, 1 that went failry well and 1 that i totally bombed. SHould i go back? if so, should i wait a day or two or more and have it seem not obvious.
Im wondering if anyone thinks this is a failed opportunity or if i still have a shot to bag this girl or not.

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"Good timber does not grow with ease,
The stronger the wind,
The stronger the trees"

-Celticfan88

Work on your inner game and don't plan what your going to say or do.

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Holy shit man chill out! I can tell right now you're way too worried about getting a gf! You're so over thinking this if the girls into you go straight into qualification. Cut the B.S. and remember one line: "so... what do you have going for you more than your looks?" Then just ask lame questions about movies, goals, dreams, travel blah blah blah you're in A3 (qualification) this is where everything starts heading down hill. Chill out go back in there and approach it as just getting to know some one. If she's giving you IOI's you're in. period. That's the hardest part of game is getting the IOI's Relax and let go. I recommend staying single and building up a few options for yourself. When you have a few girls to choose from this anxiety goes away.

I agree on the Inner game bit check out some of Hypnotica's stuff: http://www.puame.ca/videos.html he'll be in the listed videos in the third collumn.

For "GOINTOTHETOP".

sup brotha your absoultely right. I actually went in there today and chatted up every other pretty baby but her. I realize im definetly not in need of a gf but rather many more options. Being single is great and ive been outta the loop for so long that its been rough getting the wheels turnin like they used to know what i mean. ANyways great advice. Fuck the bullshit im better than these bitches. Im a fuckin bear how do i kill that bunny right! bahahha. since friday i have made like 6contacts. I figure if i take the pressure off one chick itll alleviate the dependance of that "one" girl. thanks man

You mentioned something about agreeing on my inner game. Define inner game?

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"Good timber does not grow with ease,
The stronger the wind,
The stronger the trees"

-Celticfan88

Whats an lOl?

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"Good timber does not grow with ease,
The stronger the wind,
The stronger the trees"

-Celticfan88

dude you need to get deeper into the community you obviously haven't read the Game yet. I recommend you get your hands on a copy of Neil Strauss' the Game and then track down Magic Bullets. Stuff will change your life. An IOI is an indicator of interest and as for inner game go to my site and look through the videos section you'll find clips on everything: PUA-Me http://www.puame.ca

You'll find stuff on IOI's in the middle column 6th from the top and inner game stuff is right above it.