So I was out sarging today and this HB 6 was showing IOI's. When I understood that she was interested I started dancing with other girls at the dancefloor. She became interested in another guy instead and went home with him. I got pissed off.

Are there anyone else out there that has the same problem? You get interested in other girls when some girls show interest in you? It's like I just want to walk around make girls keen on me, and then leave....

You have to ask yourself, why you want to make the girl keen on you. It sounds like you're just doing it to boost your ego, and not because you genuinely would really really like to have sex with her.

You got pissed off because you made a mistake, if you wanted to go home with her, you should of played your cards accordingly. Don't get angry at her.

It makes a lot of sence. It also seem like I am affraid of locking inn and isolate the target. Most of the times I do this I fail. I have kiss closed over a hundred times, without getting further when trying to sit down and talk to the girl.

For me it seems like girls have 2 different stages of desire. The first stage is the kiss, and the second one is sex. After the kiss you have to reprove yourself to her. Thats when I fail, because it take a lot of comfort building. I have to sit down with the girl and train rather than just walk away trying to kiss more girls.

To me, it sounds like there's some incongruousness in your escalation. Maybe you need a more direct/natural approach, it should all feel like a smooth transaction into sex. Try having the mindset of focusing on a F-close straight off, it should come across in your interactions with her if you're having this mindset.

Thats so simple but so smart! I guess I feel that once I have kissed her, it is easier to kiss other girls than trying to have sex with the first one. If I change my mindset so that I go 100% for sex with the first one my behaviour might change. Just like you said Thanx a lot for great advices mi100098! I will go out sarge tonight with a different mind!

Just remember a different mind set is something you have to adapt, old habits can easily try to make their way in.

Good luck!

your words are like magic. I did what you said and the same night I got laid as the first time in 6 months. Thank you so much! Im definately gonna ask you for more advices!

Congratulations man, great to know It helped you out

Lmao I cracked up when I read this.... I understand what you're saying though but I think you meant transition, it wouldn't be transaction unless he was paying for the sex, I don't think that was what you were suggesting but I guess that's one way of getting around it

Solid advice btw I would have recommended the same.

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So I have not been able to go online much lately, but I have to say mi1ooo98 that what you told me really helped me. I got 2 laids in 1 week, and this is after 6 months of no sex at all.

So I have spent a week sitting down with women and talking to them. I think this is my biggest challenge. I got several HBs interested, but I manage to loose most of them while I am talking to them. I need to develop my routine more.

Any links you guys can give me to help me build stories to tell that is interesting and attractive in the eyes of the woman?

Awesome, awesome. Should ask the guy for advice too then.

Oh btw, it's lose. Loose is what you call a woman that has.. well nevermind.

it's not loose.

nice on the lays though bro.