| First read the Bible called The Game last summer and studying away. Myself amazed w/ progress made. Now playing. Gaming. Thrilled. And not only with women, but with my life. Yet so much more to learn. Previous virginities last few months lost include: Never before have I have gotten two numbers in one night. Never before kiss closed. Now for me becoming common. Here is last nights report.
Arrival: Went to International party in Roppongi. When arrived not in good mood, bothered by work and other BS. Poor state for pickup. Arrived an hour late. Really wanted to just turn around and go home. Could not game a coloring book in my present state of mind.
Enter Bar: Lots of people. Few if any women looked acceptable. They give these tickets for "free" drinks after you high pay entrance fee. Just grabbed a table and began talking to gal who I would rate a five. Of course, to practice game. Think I got attraction, but did not want to kino or anything else, so just dropped it. At one point she asked why I was in Roppongi and answered "Because I like picking up women." She was fine with that answer, which amused me to no end. And ... soon I moved on.
Gaming: There two gals of interest initially. Both nice bods. However, one had teeth straight from Dawn of the Dead. And the second although had nice teeth, rest of face needed work. Too bad can't combine. Practiced. My energy level low, and got blown out pretty quick. My fault. I need practice in spite of my low energy levels and gals of whom not attracted to.
HB-9 And there she was. In a six set. Absolutely the most beautiful in the bar by a factor of ten! Approached group. Soon realized that target Yuko did not speak much English, and my Japanese a disaster. I myself had not considered gaming gal who does not speak English. How to neg her? How to dialog? Need think quick. Ummmmmmmm.
Strategy: Own the group, and move to her. Eventually get to HB. Humor. Told group worked at McDonald's and told them to repeat after me: "Would you like fries with that?" and then made them all honorary McDs employees. Then told them I a male stripper and did a dance, and when asked where I lived explained in a cardboard box located just off the yamanote train line. You cannot take this too far however cause they will think you're disingenuous, so turned to Yuko and we talked about bla bla bla. Decided kino hard, which she receptive to. New York hand shake, thumb wrestling, hi-5s, feel her bracelet, ring, etc. At one point she said she lives near Fukushima (the nuclear plant). I then said that her brain was "radiated". No one in the group understood the word "radiated" and they looked up the word "meditated" instead: "Is this what you mean, her brain is meditated?" Nope not meditated but ... radiated (as I spelled it ... R A D I A T E D). They got it, and no one laughed more than Yuko. For a while, whenever Yuko would do something dumb, I'd knock on her forehead saying "mind is radiated" "Miss Fukushima", and "Mind KaBOOM". Always a huge laugh. Reached the hook point. Shared her Moscow mule.
At this point had the group. She left for the bathroom, and I soon excused myself to "talk to friends". Looked for other females to game. Passed the Euro-dykes at the corner who gave me dirty look. Gamed nearby females for jealousy effect, but eventho uninterested in them think the dykes were. No one there came close to Yuko ... period.
Return: Soon returned to group. Yuko way being played by AFC who got blown out. I gave Yuko a ticket so she could get herself a drink. She left to get her drink and I stole her seat, locked in. Had fun with the group, all of whom worked with Yuko in childhood education. They loved me. Cool. Yuko arrived with a glass of wine which she and I shared the single glass. There was about 45 minutes before I had to leave. Decided on heavy kino. Bounced to other area of bar. However bar was crowded, so just moved to other side of table.
Escalation: She into boxing and weights, which very cool since I lift weights constantly, and have excuse for more kino as feeling arms, shoulders, butt, etc. She felt my bis, tris, chest, etc. She played boxing of my chest, and I could tell this gal has talent. Not a Mike Tyson, but this a gal you do not want to piss off, cause a left hook could take you out. I pointed to my cheek for kiss, but she said "shy". It was ASD. Thinking back, I would have bounced her out, away from her friends. However, I kissed my hand and put it on her cheek, and she the same to me ... twice.
Quitting time ?? I was ready to escalate further here. However, some of the people started dancing near us, and so did Yuko. I eventually joined her. However, it the witching hour and last train. Had to go. Spoke to her group, and waved goodby. Did not say bye to Yuko, just out the bar. And how depressing. Waste of a night. Mr AFC in the flesh, leaving club with absolutely nothing, zero, nada to show for night on the town.
Virginity lost: This a unique experience which has never happened to me. Yea, for you pros, this no biggie, but I'll remember this rest of my life. Walked out the bar. It was cold outside. Down the flight of stairs. Hear voice. "Jon, Jon." Look up. Yuko. At first I thought to myself why she there. She smiled and waved to me. I walked up the stairs and pointed to cheeks. She kissed them. I went up the stairs and grabbed her, gently shoved her to the wall, grabbed roots of her hair and pulled her head back (Style's routine) and french kissed her. There was in beginning only token resistance, and then she kissed back hard. Then bit her lower lip and would not let go. She was laughing and pretending to punch me in the face. Gave her my card w/ my e-mail address and gave her a final French kiss goodbye.
Two ways loss of virginity: First, I never French kissed a gal which I just met that night in a bar. Second, what happened is after I waved goodbye to her friends, her friends told Yuko that I was leaving. Never a gal so desperate for my contact information that she ran from one end of the bar to outdoors to kiss me goodbye and get my contact information. Was a scene from a Hollywood movie.
Lessons learned & questions: Here are some bullets which others may apply.
1. Gave Yuko a drink ticket (without her asking for it). She got herself the drink. I got her seat to lock in, and when she returned drank her red wine with her in the same glass. I think this is a sign of trust, rapport. Better to do this along with a fist bump than to get separate bottles / glasses and clink.
2. The phrase that Yuka's brain was "radiation melted" while I knocked on her forehead -- is this cocky funny? Sorry, but I have not yet read that chapter.
3. Bounce. I never thought of this before, but you can bounce her to just outside the bar where it not crowded --- duh ! ASD gone. When take her there, kiss her.
4. Just got an e-mail from Yuko this evening. Very cool.
Note: Would have escalated slower on the kiss, but I was leaving and had to make my point crystal clear.
Would have attempted push / pull and other routines / humor. However, with the gal of limited English ability, am limited. Any recommendation for more kino and other techniques when I meet up with Yuko next time? Standard rules for comfort building no longer apply.
Peace, and Praise Mystery.
--JJ
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