In a nutshell, you chat for 20, you dance for 10, you kiss for 10. At that point you take her home. Or look for another, because you've only lost 40 minutes, so the night is young...

Let me elaborate. This is no advice for the awkward, nor a revelation to the advanced. Still, it's a self-control mechanism yielding better sex. Once you can attract, you'll quickly tire of mediocre sex, which is all most lasses seem to offer.

My two proxies: 1) how she dances and 2) how she kisses. If she can dance, she can move her body/hips. If she can kiss, she's sensual. If she can do both, she's passionate and a great lay. Yet if she's hot and I am bored, I'll let a flake string me along. So while you're out, keep to my 40-minute 3-step play and you'll take home the good lay.

Cross-reference:
1) 3-strike rule: outside the SNL, she has 3 interactions to get into bed. If she texts on three different days without an appearance, you're wasting your time.

2) One-week rule: Again, SNLs aside, you meet on Thursday and haven't closed by the following Wednesday: Delete and ignore.

These two are simple self-control mechanisms, preventing you from wasting precious time, just because any woman will entertain your company. Also weeds out the girls who take dating advice from people magazine

p.s. Share the 3-strike rule with her just after you open. You'd be amazed how keen they are to please you.

Nice, this is very efficient if you're looking for quality. I like this a lot, + points

Gave you all my points? Woops, enjoy :p

I like the efficiency, working on the good leads and the general layout.

Decent for a ONS but I wouldn't expect anything but flakes, after you get the lay.

But if you are looking for an SNL/ONS, then it is a race against the clock, and yes you need efficiency. 20 minutes seems decent for a chat, to determine whether or not you feel it going anywhere. And definitely like the idea that you test if she's willing with the dance.

I also liked your two proxies, has some logic in it, but might not necessarily be true.

In my opinion, and probably maybe only a thing for me, I generally like building more of a connection but all in all I think this was a good post

For me, I feel like 20 minutes should be an absolute max, I generally try to suss things prior to the 5 minute mark. The risk with this is; you have to be quite direct to the point it may be considered as coming on too strong and not valuing the moment enough.

Yeah as you've showed, it's personal preference. I definitely think there's a balance with risk and time though. Low risk behavior can take hours to pay off, yet in some situations gets you better results than high risk behavior.(even though personally i think high risk behavior gets the results)

Generally for me, I enjoy the high risk behavior and find it to be thrilling, efficient and unpredictable

Don't get me wrong, I still think 20minutes and if you feel nothing, move on. But I'm saying, if you feel it, build more of a connection.

All fair points, and lolaskate is right. If you do decide to keep her around you should build a stronger connection. I just realized that I've let too many women waste too much of my time, so I came up with rules to keep myself honest. Giving her 3 tries and one week max also weeds out the ones with low sex drive. Maybe not the method for finding that soul mate you'll grow old with, but works if you just want to deposit yourself somewhere....

I. LIKE. THIS.

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I don't live solidly by those rules, I usually play it by ear, but it's a good technique if you're pushed for time.

@keksman I agree. Great way to dispose of any low sex drive

Mmmm love the idea of mentioning the 3-strike rule! I'll try that one out for sure.