| Unless you're a dancer and you're proud of it, stay off the floor . . . at least as a tool to open. It's a huge time suck, especially if the goal for the night is to pull. You say the hot girl is staying on the dance floor ALL NIGHT LONG? She's there to dance with her female friends, not to suck a guy off later on. Most girls who are looking to dance AND 'socialize' will move back and forth from the dance floor and 'structure' (more on this later)
And when you're waiting in line to get in, by all means open, open, open. Sure, it's great if you can game here but the point is to make acquaintances. Learn their names. remember them.
I hope you're a fisherman . . .
When you go into a bar/club, scan around for a few things.
1. Structure:
Chicks are like fish. They like structure. Fish love big boulders, reefs, and ledges. Chicks (at least the ones who are looking for action) love little pockets, corners, and columns. And like some fish, chicks like to hang around in lit areas (compared to ambient darkness of the club) . Sure, you can chase chicks like some fisherman chase fish but you could also stick close to a few 'structures' all night and I promise you, you will find girls. If you've never tried this or if you don't know what I mean by structure, just go find the hot girl who's already getting hit on and stick around. Once she gets picked up, just wait for it. . . another girl who's ready to be picked up will replace her in that spot.
2. Secondary Structure: The importance of this has been covered by many commercial pu guys but I think too many newbies are so focused in looking for chicks and memorizing lines that they fail to see the importance. The secondary location is a quiet place that's LESS well lit and better protected from prying eyes. It's the place to take her to make out.
I could name specific areas in clubs or bars that could be 1 or 2 but if you're into it, take some wild guesses . . . you'll probably be right.
Outside or even at the primary structure, all you're trying to do is open and create a bond. Similar history, familiar acquaintances, similar experiences, similar passions . . . there's no reason to lie, but there's no reason to talk about what you did in your office that day. If you're a generally boring guy, then completely exaggerate your shit so it's an obvious lie. . . and better to go in the direction of "I'm a taxi driver" when you're a Wall Street Lawyer, rather than "I'm a Wall Street Lawyer", when you're really a taxi driver.
Gain enough commonalities to high five, tap on the shoulder, (thigh if she's sitting down). . and enough to hold her hand to say, "Hey, let's check out the bar" or "Let's go check out the other side" or "Let's check out the balcony."
^This "let's check out spot" = secondary structure or the pit stop on the way to secondary structure. So you go there, kino more. Make out. Pull. Done. And I know what you 'direct fans' will say but you really, really do not have to TELL her that you're turned on and "it's her fault" and you're going to fuck her this way and that way. This is a club. She's got her tongue down your throat. You're rubbing your boner all over her crotch. Believe me, there is NO girl who won't understand, "Hey, let's get outta here."
|
CHAT
