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Yes, I'm bisexual.
Sure, she insulted him first and he has the right to defend himself, but do these types of insults gain respect (with women)? Serious question. I'm not objective since I prefer the friendly alpha approach in general. Insults don't seem alpha to me. I'm interested in how others see this.
no one, not male or female, appreciates negative emotional hits, sometimes they can even anchor bad feeling towards the person responsible for delivering the hit, however, have you ever been around a huge asshole, or someone who kept making jokes at other peoples expense? a person who was extremely confortable with insulting people? often in a manner that made you pick and choose your words carefully around that person to avoid being insulted?, that feeling is dominance, it is not nessicarily a positive feeling towards the person but it is dominance non the less, there are two ways I believe that someone can gain respect from others, the first is admiration (the friendly alpha) the other is fear (the asshole)
now, just because he is not the friendly alpha, does not mean he is not the asshole, and assholes tend to do better with women then pussies, (they still get some respect due to fear) but it often takes a certain type of woman to respond to them (low self esteem girls), but they still are usually more emotionally stimulating then a guy who will just wuss up and explain himself, and appologise after he has been insulted, neediness is less attractive then being rude, both are still unattractive, once again, not saying this guy is immensely successful, but almost any guy can be successfull to some extent if they just approache enough, and go through to motions with efficency, it seems he even said in the first video something like 1/28 aint bad, he understands, go through the motions and approach enough, and you will find success, different girls respond to different looks/personalities/approaches, it is all subjective to the person in question and can not be genralized as, this one way appeals to all, there is no one size fits all, there is a general idea of what is attractive to people, (open, friendly, non-needy, dominant, confident) these seems to be some of the personality traits people poses that are respected and admired and thus the pua community cultivates to shape people into obtaining some of these traits who are having a tough time finding success, most guys are just lacking in the confidence department or the looks department (if it is looks just work out, and be more confident, as stated before, more approaches and going through the motions and anyone can have some level of success)
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