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| Indie_Russell | PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 6:40 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:10 am Posts: 23 | | I dont have a boring life by anymeans, i surf, i race dirtbikes, ive travelled to alot of countries and my job involves working on live power poles 20m in the air.
BUT!
For the death of me i can never conjure up any good stories, i mean i can think of some things, but theyre never long enough and im always afraid that i come off as bragging.
So im asking, what are some guidelines that i can mold my stories to?
I mean, how do you guys do it?
Any help appreciated...
Im gonna add this in another section cause im not sure if it belongs here.
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| BigMike1985 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 6:53 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:05 pm Posts: 23 Website: http://www.AttractionDefined.com/ | | Talk how you would normally talk to a good friend.
Theres something called congruence, and you need to follow your natural flow.
I'm not that good at telling stories either but I am comfortable with the way I talk.
The keys are to stay out of your head, have a strong and relaxed tonality.
You can be totally calm and collected and a women will get sucked in.
The thing thats killing you is you think you need to have amazing stories to attract a women when infact she is looking at your sub communication.
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| Indie_Russell | PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 8:38 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Mar 22, 2010 5:10 am Posts: 23 | | Wow, that is so true man. Without a doubt, everytime i feel the convo is going well, its when im just naturally talking. The moment i start to think about this and to think of something cool to say, thats the moment i stumble and fuck up.
I guess ive just gotta keep working on being natural and relaxed.
Thanks heaps.
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| cftwin | PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2011 8:49 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 23, 2011 8:28 am Posts: 7 Yahoo Messenger: irishtwin1000@yahoo.com Location: New Jersey | | I've got that same problem i have amazing stories I've snowboarded since i was 8 and talk for hours one story after the other but always stumble when it comes time to deliever them or the ones i remenber just come off way too much like bragging
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