Hey guys, I am new to the forums. Interested in finding out techniques other guys use that are successful for picking up women in social/ sometimes drunk situations.

I am a college student, electrical engineering major. I put effort into what I wear so I am often compliments on what I wear. (mostly by my friends and their moms/sisters). I work at a bank and always figured I was confident, but lurking through this forum has made me realize I am really not. Most of the time when I meet a girl that I feel is attractive and she likes me I feel "lucky".

In high school I was very insecure and shy. I feel like I live in my head and my thoughts during social situations where I want to Talk To A Girl instead of actually putting actions to my thoughts.

One huge thing I lack, is I suck at eye contact. when my eyes meet a girls from across the room I instantly look away, when I don't I feel like a "creeper".

I am going to a party at a friends college tonight. The guy is known for ALWAYS having gorgeous women around him. He is usually in the "Friend Zone" though.

Can anyone give me some ideas on things I can workout today before I go to the party??

Well, I guess no one gave you any tips before going to the party. Sorry about that.

So you know you need to work on eye contact, inner game (confidence), and learn how to use your looks in your advantage. Good. You understand what needs to be improved so it's time to get to work.

Learning PUA is not really difficult, just takes time and practice. In theory, you shouldn't learn "lines" but instead, internalize how to be confident so you can apply your knowledge in any kind of situation (canned material not always work).

Anyway, welcome to the forum Zula. Have fun, read a lot, and make sure to practice.

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