lol @ everyone who is calling this BS.

One poster got it right, it's about conditioning. There are some good things in this and some bad, but when it comes to a woman's perspective of finding and binding (that sounds kinda catchy doesn't it...) a man I think this is actually pretty solid albeit a little extreme.

It's kind of like the Mystery Method for girls. Personally I'm not a fan of any of that stuff, maybe because I like myself too much to follow along with the program of some guy that I don't even know and which is basically a bunch of pseudo-scientific mumbo-jumbo (don't get mad, it's just my opinion). At any rate, for total AFC, mystery method is better than being himself. For total AFC (Average Frustrated Chick), The Rules is better than being herself. Non-AFC don't need any of that.

Also one other poster got it right in that the way to dissolve a bad habit is to go all the way to teh other extreme of the habit (i.e. you are insecure then become insufferably arrogant for a while) and to redefine yourself in the middle eventually. At least it is the quickest way. I think The Rules do this well for socially maladjusted girls.

Wow.....Thanks Heaps Roz!!!!!

I personally love these 'Rules' and totally appreciate you taking the time to summerise and re-write this stuff!!

To all the dissagree'ers - you don't have to abide by all the rules, all the time. As with all situations, books, people etc, that cross your path in life, you take what you want(or need) out of it or them (their strong qualities) and use it, as a vantage point, to the best of your abilities, to improve your well-being.

I will put up a post as soon as I have effected the 'rules' in field......

After all, field testing is the true indicator of their value.

Thanks Again Roz

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Some of those rules work, i read the rules before joining the community, and i use some of those rules on women, they work, cutting the convo. first etc... And my girl for 5 years follow some of those things naturally(the way she is), and i have not gotten bored of her, i usually get bore pretty easy... With that being said, if you got game you can get through the woman shield/rules, specially older women 30 and up, they try to pull some of that stuff most of the time, the best way is calling them on it...

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It's funny because a lot of the things are very attractive but some of them are just retarded. I particularly hated the one about not returning calls. I have ditched a lot of women because they didn't return calls in a timely manner. I got shit to do, don't be rude.

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maybe im wrong, but i feel like PUA only exists because of these girls "rules". If a girl was herself, id rather have than then a girl playing games. Wait 3 dates and dont tell him much about yourself, are you kidding me, Thats just uninteresting.

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urm I find Rule #4 particularly offensive

luckily most girls where I live are proud and will usually offer to pay for their own
or even talk you out of paying if you offer

somtimes I pay because I like them and want to treat but I don't make a habit of it
or sometimes I say "you can get the next ones" to show it's not a DLV

if a girl said something like "I don't pay for drinks/dinner on a first date" (or worse still for 3 dates)
I either be like "I think that's really rude, you want me to pay for your company?"
or go funny "Oh so this is a date now is it? That's a bit forward, how about you buy these ones and I'll get the next round, that's fair isn't it?"

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Rules... there is a saying "rules are meant to be broken" I follow this logic often...

I got a new opener from this!!! "Do you think it's alright for a girl to have a policy on not paying for anything on the first three dates?"

they will probably say no
or make a philosophising remark "well... it depends ... blah blah"

"...because this woman wrote a book saying.... and I think..."

whatever they say there are opprtunities to make fun of them in a non-insulting but banterous way

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these rules were made a long time ago, taught from mother to daughter. Think about the idealized southern bell, or all the women in Gone with the Wind. seriously. they were taught this and only in our modern society the family values have started to slip away. Women are not "Ladies" anymore. This list of rules was published in the first place to help the women who arent taught this from an early age. Women will continue to act like this and it is only a remarkable woman, or a slut, who acts on her own instincts. Men used to court women, literally being AFC because they couldnt fuck a decent lady, only whores, until they married. Society IMO has improved yet norms and values stay the same for a long long time.

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Some thoughts here - most of this is actually pretty accurate. But some points are suicidal if the girl is dealing with a guy she likes.

Rule #3: Don’t Stare at Men or Talk Too Much
- Don’t make eye contact; simply smile, look relaxed and approachable.
Yeah look approachable, but some eye contact is good, before he approaches.
- On the first date: Look down at the table, your food, the crowd. Seem generally interested in life, others, your surroundings, the paintings on the wall, as oppose to the live prey. Let him spend the evening trying to get your attention.
Stupid

Rule #4: Don’t Meet Him Halfway or Go Dutch on a Date
- Don’t pay for anything on the first three dates.
Get with the times love. Go two dates max with no offer to pay. In fact even two is pushing it. Offer and then allow the guy the option of refusing.
- Repay him by being appreciative. Say thank you and please. Don’t criticize the place or the food or the service. Be positive. Look for the good in everything.
This isn't repayment bitch, its expected.

Rule #22: Don’t Live with a Man
- Move in only if you’ve set a wedding date
- Men propose when they’re afraid of losing you
Utter nonsense-both points.

Extra Rules
2. Don’t call him even when you feel mean about not calling him. If he loves you, he’ll call anyway. When he asks you to call him, call him once. Do the absolute minimum.
When further into eachother yes, but not in the early days.

5. Be extra sweet when you do The Rules. Call him once for every five times he calls you. Be affectionate.
Are you an idiot? What guy that the girl is actually interested in would call five times with no reply??!!

lol thats hilarious buyt interesting read regardless
i do agree with the first few rules in the first section though

It's like dating etiquette for women

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Lol, I think some of those rules are good because some girls when they like a guy think they are in a relationship with them after like 3 dates and chase them, want to know where he is all the time etc.
But some of the rules are old fashioned.

I have noticed something about him paying on at least the first date. My experience is that it is a lot more probable that a guy is serious about a girl if he pays on the first date. I have never expected a guy to pay on the first date and to not split the bill, but if he doesn't he almost always just wants sex or is selfish in other areas where he shouldn't be. That is my experience from it, and I know many will argue. I don't say that it always is like that. It's just like a trend I've noticed, so even if I want to split the bill on the first date, it's a good sign if he pays. Maybe it has something to do with the culture where I live..

The rule about her not initiating sex if they are together makes me deeply unhappy. I certainly hope guys don't lose interest in a girl because she shows him what she wants. Women have in general received too much penalty during the decades about showing their sexuality.

I think there are some valid points, but at the same time they can get out of hand and be too strict.

I think that very good looking women have more use of this, actually. Because of the simple fact that when men see them, they start to think with just one head, and by that I don't mean the northern most head lol. She is preselected only because of her looks, and he wants her even if he doesn't know if they match personality wise. In a relationship those differences surface. So if she plays more by those rules, the guy are forced to get to know her better.

It's funny, when girls hear about the game they swear to GOD that it wouldn't work on them. From your experience guys, is that true?

Game works but depends on the person executing the game...Just like women tell you, i would never sleep with a guy like you... a week later she is calling you to do it again...

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