ey hows it going everyone, i need some advice.

I have just recently been talking to and hanging out with this girl that i met through a friend awhile ago .

She drove 1.5 hours out of her way to meet me at a concert. We hung out most of the night , have alot in common, so i decided to ask her for coffee.

We went for coffee for about 3 hours, and felt that we clicked. She made eye contact all night, laughed at my jokes asked me weird questions (like what was the weirdest way a girl has tried to pick you up?)

She told me what she looks for in a relationship , but she also told me about why she broke up with her boyfriend.

Is she just being friendly or is she into me?

The thing is when i text she always responds but , usually never initiates. She told me she is quite shy even a introvert. I don't know what to think.

Are you telling us that you are looking to progress this relationship based on how you think SHE THINKS about you? What are you, 'chopped liver'? How do you feel about her?

And yeah, she's into you so move your ass and get going.

If a girl responds in half of the ways she has towards you, I'd assume she's into me. As a matter of fact, I ALWAYS assume she's into me. Worst case scenario, I get to realize she's not. Best case scenario, she's laying naked in my bed.

Could you live with either one of those outcomes...? Ask yourself that question

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And the only thing you should be thinking is "I will get this girl." because God knows, she has given you the right signals, or so it looks.

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it looks like a no dice. I texted her to go for a bite to eat and a movie. She said she was busy this the weekend and would text me when she was free. haven't heard anything, waited a week a texted her again asking if she was free. and nothing.

any advice??

how about you and me both do the AFC thing and curl up in a corner together..
"shees not intooo meeeee"

I got a dinner date this week.

She was just busy on the weekend and msged me sunday.

Your situation is much different from most who troll this forum. You have an average date with an average girl. This is an average situation.

Most dweebs come to this forum because they are losers who can't get ONE SINGLE DATE. What you've described is a realistic schedule from real life people. People are busy with their REAL LIVES. You're busy and she's busy. Throughout all this, you've both managed to follow through and secure a date. This is REAL LIFE. Stop coming to this forum to ask for advice. You are already well ahead of the curve. Go to the date and have fun. On the date, escalate, touch . . . get a kiss. You're set.

Hey guys, to give you a update.

2nd date kept getting pushed back, than i receive a text saying she was being exclusive with someone else. And she wanted to go out as friends, so i am moving on.


Thanks for the advice , it's been a great help and look forward to meeting the next girl.

Whatever man it happens! Props for saying "she only wanted to go out as friends" and then saying "so i am moving on" in the same SENTENCE. A lot of guys on this forum would do well to take that page out of your book. Good luck in the future buddy