OK, so I'm gonna call a girl that I've met and suggest that we meet again. I know that I should keep the conversation short and preferably be the one to round off, but how well should I plan it? What's the best way to open and to round off?

Do you have any youtube videos on the topic to recommend, or are there maybe some good threads here?

By 'met' are you saying you just met her or went out with her ? if you already went out once you can go for something like:

"Hey , look , I only got a minute cuz I have to do [insert random reason here].I had a great time with you last time we met.Tomorow (or whatever date) Im going to X(whatever place) ,you in ?"

Be more specific if you really want help

It's a girl that I contacted after I found we have some common interests. We met a few weeks ago and we've been texting a little since. Last time we just went for a walk, which is not a bad thing after all, because then we can focus on one another instead of for example on a movie.

Your idea sounds good! Then it's just to figure out what activity to suggest!

yeah the important thing is to have something FUN and memorable to suggest, you don't want it to be some boring classic cliche second date like going to the movies. if you can look in some local guide and find some kind of community event that's going on these are perfect. pretty much anything random like farmer's market or some concert or something will go over very well.

How about an outdoor bric a brac market with old items (books, vinyls, jewellery, etcl)?

If we go to a concert I guess I should pay for the tickets? On a second date, won't this come across as desperate?

What do you think, guys?

What you are really looking for is somewhere where the conversation is easy to make, and you don't even have to start it. So, an outdoor market should work fine. What I prefer is a museum: not only is it really interesting, but you have to be calm and close to the girl to talk to her.

The problem with the concert, in my opinion is that you won't be able to talk to her at all. In her mind, she will remember that she was "at XX's concert with [you]". At a market, or something where you can actually talk, you make sure the center of attention is you guys, and the environment just stimulates the conversation. In her mind, or when she will talk about to friend (because she will... girls talk about everything even d*ck size, don't be foolish), she'll most probably say "I was with [you] at a market". You'll come first, because most of the time, she was concentrated on you.

About paying for the girl, yes definitely, do pay, if she is your girlfriend (up to a certain point of course). Before that, why would you pay? She's no one special (yet!): would you pay for a friend (supposing it's not a gift)?

Hey, that sounds good! I think I'll take her to the history museum. But it's maybe not the best place for getting overtly intimate?