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PostPosted: Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:09 pm 
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There's a cute girl in my class that I've talked to a few times. She always sits with her close friend. Got her number today so we can study tomorrow. I know she thinks I'm a cool guy, but I probably have not built enough attraction to get her to not bring her friend. So I'm just gonna assume he's studying with us tomorrow. I hate cockblockers. What am I supposed to do? So noob help lol.


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There's a cute girl in my class that I've talked to a few times. She always sits with her close friend. Got her number today so we can study tomorrow. I know she thinks I'm a cool guy, but I probably have not built enough attraction to get her to not bring her friend. So I'm just gonna assume he's studying with us tomorrow. I hate cockblockers. What am I supposed to do? So noob help lol.
Don't show up and do some phone/text game before deciding to meet up again.

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There's a cute girl in my class that I've talked to a few times. She always sits with her close friend. Got her number today so we can study tomorrow. I know she thinks I'm a cool guy, but I probably have not built enough attraction to get her to not bring her friend. So I'm just gonna assume he's studying with us tomorrow. I hate cockblockers. What am I supposed to do? So noob help lol.
Don't show up and do some phone/text game before deciding to meet up again.
No, show up and roll with it. You asked for a study 'date', not a make out session. If she's into you, she'll take care of the rest. If she's a bit 'scared', she'll bring her chaperone. So what? Have fun with the study 'date' and build some comfort. When you're ready, ASK HER OUT.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:34 am 
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Have fun with the study 'date' and build some comfort. When you're ready, ASK HER OUT.
I like this idea. Probably should study for that class anyways, so behind lol.

But build comfort? Aren't you supposed to build attraction first? I feel like I haven't built enough attraction for her to want me sexually. For example I'd playfully hit her but she'd never playfully hit me back. Last thing I want is to get friend zoned. And the problem with building attraction...her friend is there so I can't really kino too much...or can I? Perhaps I should just go with cocky and funny. Man this pick up shit is hard...

By the way a question about pick up theory:

comfort without attraction = friend zone?


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Make friends with him?
If she thinks hes your friend she'll know hes just playing around in a freindly way and not take it seriously
Go on the date and do accidental kino, touch her under the table, or something there you dont put your arm around her obvious


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Make friends with him?
If she thinks hes your friend she'll know hes just playing around in a freindly way and not take it seriously
Go on the date and do accidental kino, touch her under the table, or something there you dont put your arm around her obvious
That sounds like it could work. I like the accidental kino idea. I think I'm gonna sit next to her and be very "clumsy". But her friend's a douchebag and I don't wanna make friends with someone I had no previous intentions of making friends with just for a "better shot" with a girl. She's cute as fuck but I'm just looking for a quick way to build attraction/get physical with her without this friend getting in my way. Hell I'm not even looking for a relationship I honestly just wanna fuck her and see what happens. If I'm gonna learn pick up, I should probably stay single so I can practice my game. There's surprisingly many hot girls in my tiny ass classes.


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I had no previous intentions of making friends with just for a "better shot" with a girl.
to bad lol welcome to real life, most girls have a guy friend who you think is the biggest douchebag and she loves him and you have to deal with that - you dont actually have to become friends u know that right? just pretend its like a game (game-ing women?)


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*Her male friend finds himself in the situation he's in because he likes her enough to tag along but has no balls to ask her out.

*You're going on a study date with her because you like her enough to tag along but have no balls to ask her out.

*She might invite her male friend because she likes you enough for you to tag along but she doesn't have the balls to kick his ass out.

Of the three people above, she is the only chick. She physically has no balls; you do. At your age and at your experience levels, heightened sexual attraction at an early stage will only lead to raising her nervousness and a tendency to call upon her chaperone. Gain some comfort, figure out a 'fun event' (obviously, 'let's study together' is not a fun event) and invite her out as if it's not a big deal at all.

Get yourself one on one with her. That's when you turn your motors on.


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