Ok here is the deal. It is highschool (sophmore) i want to get my ex-gf back, who gets alot of attetion from ALOT of guys but only uses them to get more attention and be popular i think, i try to avoid her so i look disintrested in her but she laughs alot and i have her for alot of my classes. When she laughs or does something she gets alot of attetion from everyone in the room so ofcourse i also look. Dont get me wrong i also get alot of attetion but sincera she is hot my buddies opten try to kiss up to her to see if they have a chance with her. Anyways it has gotten go the pount where i negg her to much to avoid staying in the friend zone like all the other guys. What can i do to show higher value?

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two question:

why did you two break up?

why do you want more of that?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

You're in highschool. Just move on. Go experience other girls and you'll realize that there is nothing special about this one.

stop getting on your knees for those skanky leftovers ...

1. she sucks your dick
2. she doesn't suck you dick

2 is probably the right answer.. . she doesn't suck you dick you are wasting your time.. what is fucking next ? you polish and paint her nails ? if you aren't getting what you want you need to stop and walk away, you got way more to lose than her right now...

gawd you are locking yourself in with a unecassary case of one-itis...

how can you break it ?

just walk up to her .. and tell her she can suck your mothafucking dick..

you either walk away thinking about if there would any chance you cpould back togehter or you can burn all bridges behind you and game other woman.

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we broke up because she wanted me to meet her parents and go to her house first , but i wanted her to come to my house first.... so i said "fuck that im the man here", to myself. i waited for her to call me but then i called her after 2 weeks and she broke up with me.

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and i want to get back to her because i have this weird thing that i want to be the first to fuck her since she is a virgin. she is hot, popular, party girl, a girl with a very kind heart, and likes almost everything i like. that is why i want her back.

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You can't get what you never had.

I hate the word CAN'T because i know i will.

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Please try to listen to some of the other advice on here. If anything, the worst idea possible is to get back together.
1. She broke up with you. Is she going to just take you back? I doubt it.
2. If she wants you back, she'll come to you. Will she come back to you? Probably not. But on the slight chance she does, don't take her back.

Either way, forget the whole idea (easier said than done, I know), and just move on.

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Grow a pair.

Part of being a man is knowing when to walk away. There is nothing manly about pounding your head against a brick wall and refusing to stop until the wall falls.

A man does not let a girl affect him the way you are letting this girl affect you. The truth is, a girl cannot affect you at all, only your own mind can affect you. You are not in control of your own mind right now.

Who gives a shit if you are the first to fuck her or not? Do you really think that is worth anything? Is it worth heartache? Is it worth your sanity? No, it's not.

In fact, virgins suck anyway. They are a lot of work, they are bad in bed, and they usually just lay there and cry the whole time.

I've taken 2 girls' virginity in my life, and I have never once thought back on it like "yeah, I got those girls' virginity!" That's just stupid. Because, whether I was the first to fuck them or not, the fact remains that I'm not the one fucking them now.

The truth is, if you are the first to fuck her, then it just means that you'll do all the work, while the next guy gets all the benefits from your work. Because, since she's no longer a virgin, she'll be more quick to sleep with the next guy and she'll be more experienced and open to new things.

Amen to the first part haha.
Let him do some work for fellow pua people, makes it easier for them!
I recommend not doing it, won't stop u though

Yea you all are right i'll start going out and meeting hotter girls that have better personality qualities than her and that i like.

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I'd be moving on, getting back out into the field, and forgetting all about her

So i'm in the position that i'm back together with my gf after SHE broke up with me and i did it by imploying certain behaviours etc and had her wanting me back while I was the one that decided (I decided i wanted to give it another go because i wanted to)

i had like 20 pms after asking for advice and shit and some of those guys did what i said it also turned out well for them... i have to tell you bro... a ''break up'' over whos going to meet whos parents first????

1) she's not worth it (you'll realise that if you just get out and about and talk to some other girls
2) doesn't seem like you guys had a hardcore relationship if thats what you argue about. you're both still young i'd suggest you move on and heres the kicker if you do move on the chances are she'll want you back

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same story with all woman...

you just be unavailabe
you act like you don't want her
you act like your time is valuable
and you keep interacting with other woman

she will become more attracted...

the fun stuff is ... if you do this a 100 %.. she doesn't only want to get you back even more - you will lose alot of your needy and clingy behaviours. do not hook up with ex-GFs ... I NEVER understood why guys are talking like they are getting back their exes or how to

if you girlfriend or wife dies she dies ... if you break up , your relationship dies .. it's not there anymore. Guys are trying to put their relationship on artificial breathing, i have no fucknig clue why you would go after your exes.

my first GF.. after we broke up i chased her for fucking 3 months... after a while i just decided to give up. 2 weeks later i picked up some other woman got a new girlfriend.. and realized i wasted 4 or 5 months getting back a woman i did not want in the first place.

you are just a terribly needy guy that cares about other guys hitting on her...you have no value at all .. you just try to impress her.. you might as well cut your balls off and hand them to her.

if she doesn't fuck you .. if she doesn't escalated around you ... SHE DECIDED A LONG TIME AGO you are into the friend zone. the reason why you broke up is pathetic as well...it's fucking hilarious... who the fuck care about such un-important thing ? who cares who meets who first... jezus.

it's funny how everyone gives the pua babble... ''go out and run to the rainbow there are hotter girls and pots of gold over there'' and the guy states how he's going out and meeting girls with better personalities... the OP himself got a shitty personality.... he made a big issue out of nothing - didn't called his girlfriend for 2 weeks , and then got angry she dumped him.

meanwhile it's he who is being immature....

the guy got dumped not becuase he is the man .. but because he made a huge issue out of nothing - disrespected her and she decided that you are the one that is having no personality ; that's why she fucking broke up. why didn't you want to meet her parents first ? were you shitting your pants ?

it's not about getting her back or getting hotter woman .. OP just wants revenge because he cannot stand the fact that '' he's the man that got dumped''. no you are the male .. but not a man.. if you look between you legs you see something hanging.. you acted fucking immature... nothing manly about it. a man make descision about things that are really important... you just tried to make a descision about something which is not important - she noticed and you choded yourself out.

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