hi im confused i need your help im 24 my mate is also 24 im great mates with his family and his younger sister is 18 she got my nunber about two years ago and used to txt me loads at first i found it annoying and try and brush her off only then a couple a months ago i seen her and wow she looked great and she was coming on to me i turned her done but we started txting and the worse thing is at 24 iv never had a girlfriend thats why im on this site i like her and if she wasnt my mates sis i would go out with her worse thing is now i cant stop thinking about her what do i do have any of ye the same kind of thing happen to them do i try and forget about her witch im trying to at the minute do i start going out with her on the quiet and see how it goes or do i go out with her and risk falling out with my mate i need help

Before putting her off your list, why don't you get to know a bit about her? If you can tell she's interested in you, then you may want to talk to your friend about it. You know, kind of getting the blessing or something. It's basically making sure he's ok with you kissing her sister in front of him and all that (and fucking her on his back ).

I've personally never been in this situation (my friends either don't have sisters or they're ugly lol). But if I was in it, I wouldn't just rule out anyone without confirmation. On the other hand, there's a bunch of other girls out there, so...

Totally up to you.

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So say you get with this girl... if you end it on a sour note, what do you think will happen? You will lose her and your best friend. Even if you end it with respect, she is 18 years old. Totally unpredictable.

Your friend doesn't want to see you going out with his sister unless you marry the girl. Which you won't. Not now anyways.

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Go for it man..

but that advice is coming from someone who has a lot more female friends than male.. And girls have at times probably contributed to part of failed friendships with males.. So be prepared for a few ups and downs with your friendship if you go ahead.. good luck

Dude you said you've never had a girl and that is why your in the forum.

So let's help you get girls. DO NOT GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS SISTER.

There is nothing worse that knowing your friend is banging your sister.

This place is full of tips and ideas as to how to the girls you like. YOu shouldn't have to go out with your friend sister until you have exhausted every last resort.

It's tempting as hell I can imagine but for the sake of keeping your friend's friendship and not disturbing the peace DON'T DO IT.

Approach more girls first.

Exactly!

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Yeah If you havent had many other girls you'll come off as a real loser fucking your buddies sister...

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If you really like her and think she can be your girlfriend, like a man have a chat to your friend.

Tell him listen bro, I really like her and I am not just fuckin around. I was just gonna make sure you are all right with it first.

Then double bind him right there:

Is it ok with you if I ask her out in front of you, or sometimes when you are not around (so she dont feel uncomfortable).

If you have a solid character, you'll be good to go and he will be happy to have you as his in-law, even for a short time.

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Best of luck, go get her, live like this is your last 10 minutes.

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Having 2 sisters of my own, I can relate to this topic. If one of my closest friends wanted to or was dating my sister, I wouldn't be too fucking happy about it to say the least...

thanks for your replys some of ye said go out and hit on girls and im away with it ands shes forgot like maybe im a sad loser but i cant stop thinking about her if i could i would and to top it off i would not like to see any one else with her as i know if i want her shes mine i knew it even two years ago when she was 16 and i brushed her off shes asked me out loads of times but i turned her down i just feel comfortable with her more so than other girls im not in your league that i can go to pubs and clubs and get girls if that was the case i would not be here plus dr jones said at 18 they or totally unpredictable but bansario said i should get to know her better before i do anything witch is a good idea i like puss worlds thinking is well some of ye or saying go ahead other or saying stay well clear i have two thinking on the subject my good side witch says shes 18 to young my mates sister could not do that to my mate stay loyal to your mate bad side says your here for a good time not a long time just go out with her if i dont il always be wondering what it would be like she could be the girl for me i still dont know or is it wanting something that i dont have

Zekid this is a little offtopic but it would be nice if you would use some punctiation. This isn't a text. It's blabbernothing. I can't read it without going nuts.

just reread it myself i can see what ya mean but was in a rush at the time would like ya to stay ontopic and i promise that
in the furture i will spell and
use correct punctiation
yours
ZEKID