I've been hitting the clubs hard with my friends / wing-man for a while and I'm really out there practicing my craft and improving what it is that I do.

It's getting to the point where I am getting somewhere and its not easy to play this game and it is stifling my friend where he is just stuck doing nothing and f-ing me up by hanging around when I wanna get it in with a girl. (saying things like, we should go / I'm tired / I'm hungry). I look out for my friends cos end of the day he is my friend and I'll always look out for him.he only ever gets into sets when I open the sets especially if there is two girls.

But what can I do to get him to work harder for himself. He is creating more obstacles for me by not picking up on social cues when to leave me with a girl and let me work.

I just don't wanna to be rude and tell him to get lost. He should know when its time to make an exit.

WTF am I meant to do.

Go out alone

I had a similar situation. I told my friend to fuck off and we no longer talk. Best thing I ever did!

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In life, people tend to wait for good things to come to them. And by waiting, they miss out.

I do my sarging alone normally. If you wanna have a wing, you need to sync with him. My former wing and me used to have weekly workshop sessions just to sync.

And yes, if you are not on the same level, your wing holds your back and you carry his weight as well as your own.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I have been in the same situation. I opened a set, and my wingman 'jumped in'. He would never open this girl, but since I opened her, he could easily 'use' me to meet this girl.

Although I opened a girl, and still gaming her, my wingman thinks that he should hold back, because he is a PUA too. Because I didn't hook up with her (yet), I could not claim her. These are his thoughts.

You can go out to clubs with friends,

but you have to sarge ALONE. In the end, every man wants to get laid. Besides, why do you need a wingman actually?