Hey , Ive noticed something with my game which seems to me a bit of a limmiting factor and I feel like it may be making it difficult for me to go further with a girl , coz im kindo tired of just hooking up with random girls all the time and would like to maybe go the distance with one.

Im like a loveable jerk 24/7 and i always have a witty response for everything a girl says to me e.g.
Girl arent you glad you game out tonight to get your weekly dose of keetchy ( her nickname )
Me Who the fricks Keetchy ?
Girl Its me you idiot
Me Oh no , I will pass im trying to cut back on that shit
*girl hits me playfully*
Girl Oh fxck off ( in a laughing manner)

This is what my conversation is like 100% of the time ( sure theirs nothing wrong with it when your just hooking up )
I feel like I should be adding other elements to it to because this is the type of conversation they always expect off me and It kindo makes it difficult to be taken "serious" later on in life. Whenever I do try and have a bit of a serious conversation they always feel uncomfortable and it usually just resorts back to giving eachother banter then making out :\ . I feel like im wearing a clown outfit 24/7 , a god damn sexy clown outfit

look you don't want to be serous (i get taken seriously by girls but i don't think i can help u there) all the time but if this is your whole game than its gonna get bland to the girls and you may just be building the lowest amount of attraction possible. so make full use of the skills (like push pull seduction magic tricks palm reading ect) a pua can obtain and give yourself some diversity yet show maby a hint of a more intelligent guy with a dhv that fits this probably gonna be taking a little more seriously after if the dhv's not some fake bluff (im Hippocratic i know)
first impressions mean everything so this may be hard and if done wrong may ruin you

DHV= display of high value

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Remember, it's called push - PULL. Sounds like you're always just pushing.

Erm thanks for your replys but its not what Im looking for . Trust me on the fact I have quite solid game and I know what Im doing (most of the time) when picking up girls.

Its just trying to conect with them and be taken serious as most of our conversations are just as I listed above . She says something , I poke fun at it in a light mannered way I say something she pokes fun at it in a light mannerd way. I try and be a bit more serious have an actual conversation they try and change it back to the way it was before.

Change the scenery.

I find it VERY difficult to connect emotionally with club/bar women.

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switch your mindset from im trying to impress this girl and keep her interested to, she is holding/losing my interest, your going to have to start screening instead of impressing at some point, when you want to have a serious disscussion, just have a serious discussion, if she breaks your balls and tries to pull witty banter out of you, just give her a blank stare (not an angry one or a look of irritation, just blank) then don't get pulled into that joking around frame stay congruently serious, then re-assert your frame and continue the serious talk, she will get pulled into your serious frame

So be mature, more serious and escalate a lot

zappo your style identical to mine(good cause girls always laughing and having fun), but you are just overdoing it, you need to calibrate, and you can have cool convo. there is a routine i use in a joking manner it works, also read the book how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnagie:

in the year 2040 when we are in our multimillion dollar mansion waking up by our kids in the morning(give the kids silli names), they will say mommy daddie wake up, we wake up and you say what is it honney? she says:"you are the best mommy and daddie ever, why you 2 are always so happy, daddy how you met mommy, i said you know i met your mommie at(venue, place you are at the time telling the story or where you met), she never believed we were going to end up together, but look at us now so happy..blah blah, she will get all emotional and give you a smile and Hugh you and shit!

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My style is a lot like yours. I always keep women laughing, but it is different cause there is subtle things you can do to your style of humor that you can switch on an off from being a jokester clown funny to a more sophisticated level headed style of humor.

I would study comedians with (what I called) low energy syndrome. Where they were still funny, but didn't come off as over doing a joke. People like Louie C.K., or Norm McDonald, or Mitch Hatfield. Guys who could deliver the funny, but still not come off as people desperate for a persons laugh. Then I would copy-cat that style and apply it to my routines, body movement, and voice tone....then I realized my game really getting good.

Then once the girl thinks she has me figured out I would throw a curveball at her and do something outright blatantly humorous to her. Like say if she would ask me to the dancefloor with her. I'd lead the way and stop in the middle of the dancefloor and start doing the lawnmower, or the cabbage patch, or hammer time. Something so stupid it'll get a laugh from her and everyone in proximity.

It doesn't have to be directed to her either...sometimes you can say something to your wing that is outragous and the girl who is your target will still hear it cause she is within earshot of your conversation. It's a way to make sure she is targeting you also. For instance here is a conversation I had that my target was listening in on and laughed so hard she ran into the bathroom. I thought I had said something wrong, but then she later ran up to me and kissed me on the lips and the rest of the night was history.

Wing: God...that's the second drink I've given to a girl tonight. I think I'm losing my touch.
Me: HA! I guess I'll be spotting you when you'll be making it rain on them hos.
Wing: What ever...
Girl: Make it rain?
Me: That is when you throw money at hookers.
Me *Directed towards Wing*: You should learn from me and make it hail on them bitches.
Wing: Hail?
Me: Yeah, that's when you throw loose change at sluts.
Girl: HAHAHA! OH MY GOD! *Runs with her pals to the bathroom*

Just be more subtle and you'll be taken more seriously. But being humorous is part of being a pick-up artist, so you'll still feel a bit of this feeling up until you build comfort with her.

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Haha cheers Skills , thats a pretty good role playing routine , definatley going to be adding that to my lets get married in vegas routine haha.
Haha Ive done that a few times but i usually do the chainsaw

Nah but in all seriousness I am going to try and Calibirate it more and be a bit more subtle

cheers guys